Feeling lonely? You’re not alone. Even before a pandemic made socializing a risk to your health, it’s never been easy to find *your* people. But we want to help. One of the joys of watching the Alma community expand is seeing our readers connect with each other, whether it’s flirting in the comments of our Instagram page or finding a fellow Jew in a small town to reach out to. Now, we’re taking our matchmaking to the next level with the launch of Alma Classifieds, an old-school way to make new connections. Whether you’re in the market for a romantic partner, friends, or just someone with a dog you can pet, we’re here to help you find what you’re looking for.
How to submit:
In your classified, please tell us who you are and what you’re looking for (but keep it anonymous, i.e. no names!). Are you looking for love? Friendship? A pen pal? Classifieds often include your hobbies or fun facts, but include whatever feels right and authentic to you. If you’re looking for an in-person connection, please include your location (as general or specific as you want!), or if you’re looking for a virtual or long-distance thing, you can note that as well. Give a sense of your age (doesn’t have to be exact if you don’t want it to be) and keep your text to 300 characters or less. Need some inspiration? Check out these examples from some of our favorite fictional Jews.
We can’t wait to read yours!
Please note that not all classifieds will be listed. We’re a small team, and we only have limited matchmaking capacity, but we’re trying our very best to help you find love/friendship/a dog. Xoxo, Team Alma.
Submit a classified here:
Reply to a classified posted posted June 10, 2021:
WANNABE BALABOOSTA (23 y/o) looking for my Sam the pickle man to cross Delancey & come find me in Brooklyn. Me: “favorite grandma” energy, love knitting, languages & buying too many Jewish history books. ISO Yiddishkeit loving traveler to sing nigunim, tell me bedtime stories & hug me like it’s his job. Reply here.
NEW-IN-TOWN LEFTIST SEEKING COMMUNITY (23, Cambridge). I’m moving in July and want to meet other Boston 20-somethings. Let’s go to protests & grab bagels! Me: Jew-ish, she/her, queer, hwc grad, likes poetry & museums. You: down for zine-making on Shabbat, don’t care that I’m a scorpio double gemini. Reply here.
EARLY 20s NJGOC (Nice Jewish Girl of Color) in Austin, TX looking for a women or non-binary person to romance. I WILL make you shakshuka and knafeh, don’t even sweat. I’m also a (hopeful) future rabbi and speak Hebrew and Yiddish, so you’re sure to make your mom proud by bringing me home 😉 Reply here.
NJB (27) SEEKING NJG IN BROOKLYN/NYC. Loves hiking, taking photos, and enjoying life. Foodie looking for someone fun. 4/20 friendly a plus. Reply here.
23 Y/O MOVING TO BOULDER SEEKING ROOMIES & FRIENDS. Relocating to Boulder this summer and would love to find housemates or friends who like going on walks, baking challah, buying too many houseplants, and geeking over dogs. Reply here.
PANSEXUAL JEWISH LEO (32, Buffalo, NY) seeking local or online fellow pop culture nerds who also have a lot of opinions and a lot of anxiety. We can watch shows and critique them with an intersectional feminist lens! And maybe flirt a little, who knows! Reply here.
LOOKING FOR THE JON OSSOFF TO MY DR. ALISHA KRAMER (WSM, 23F) in MN. Aspiring doctor skilled at coping w/ existential dread and dysfunctional family dynamics. Seeking man who is down to co-parent 2 cats and thrive as 1/2 of an iconic middle-aged Jewish couple. Reply here.
TORONTO CHALLAH BAKING QUEEN (29) looking for NJB soulmate to swap camp stories, laugh until I snort, and raise future mensch babies. Faves include my chaotic kitty, musicals, social justice, and rewatching sitcoms. Let’s get chai & makeout by the campfire. Seth Rogen lookalikes encouraged to apply. Reply here.
31 Y/O FULLY VAXXED, NEARLY CONVERTED, SYNAGOGUE EMPLOYED blundstone bisexual leftist seeks chavruta partner for torah study & complex convos on the lake, in the forest, over boba. New to Seattle, generally looking for queer Jewish non-men friends with chill but not careless energy. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted posted June 3, 2021:
LESBIAN LARRY DAVID (27, NYC) ISO a lady or NB love. Me: eavesdropper, gets lost while using Google Maps, too afraid to ask to pet dogs but always wants to, discusses next meal while eating current meal. You: funny, kind, introspective. Reply here.
BORSCHT BELT ENTHUSIAST SEEKS MIDWEST MIDGE MAISEL to deli hop with. 25 y/o Chicago area NJB in search of local NJG (21-26). Hobbies include admiring dogs in public, cheering on Chicago sports teams and going to Target way too often. Are you Team Applesauce or Sour Cream? Reply here
QUEER JEWISH HOTTIE LOOKING FOR SAME. Living in Oregon, early 20s, AMAB nonbinary, looking for NJB. I’m obsessed with baking, climbing, crafting and the occasional plant murder 🙁 hoping to find a queer hottie located on the west coast who can take me camping and teach me how to keep a plant alive. Reply here
LONDON BORN AND BRE(A)D NJB LOOKING FOR A NJG. I’m an amateur lock-down baker looking for someone to buy a KitchenAid with. I enjoy running, cycling and bouldering — but equally happy with a lazy weekend watching films. Reply here
LONDON-BASED FEMALE 28 Y/O NJG SEEKING NJB. Looking for a guy to explore new restaurants with as they open back up! You have to be open to me co-ordering food so we can try as much of every menu as possible. Reply here
23 Y/O VENEZULAN NJG SEEKING FEMALE ROOMMATE IN L.A. Recent architect grad moving this Sept. in search of a Masters Degree, new adventures and a cool roommate to make the most out of post-COVID life, including but not limited to: making arepas, sharing skin care routines and becoming TikTok famous. Reply here
NEW TO THE PUGET SOUND AREA (mid 20s, she/her/hers) looking for a small group of queer-friendly, not-so-kosher people to take turns hosting Shabbos meals with. I’ll bring the babka and the brisket, you bring your favorites to the table! Reply here
29 Y/O QUEER JEWISH WOMAN SEEKING LOVE, PARTNERSHIP & A HIKING BUDDY IN CLEVELAND. Me: pediatrician, Arbeter Ring type, loves hiking, cooking, and justice work. You: earnest, kind, independent, serious goofball who loves the outdoors, the indoors, and my cat. Let’s have a picnic on the lake together. Reply here
ALMOST 30 Y/O BISEXUAL NJG IN THE CLE SEEKING ROMANTIC PARTNER for Shabbat dinners, adventure and cuddles. Bonus points (but life is like whose line is it anyways and the points don’t matter) for having a love of musicals, Jewish food and humor. Challah at me for bad puns and witty banter. Reply here
Reply to a classified posted May 27, 2021:
VENEZUELAN NJB IN MIAMI (24) looking for a NJG to appreciate intense dad humor and watch endless movies and shows with me. Will you be the Jess to my Schmidt, the S2 Stevie to my David (fwb), or the Golde to my Tevye? We’ll find out on the next episode of Alma Classifieds. Reply here.
A FLASHY GIRL FROM FLUSHING… not so flashy but do enjoy reruns of “The Nanny.” 37 y/o F in Riverdale NY in search of a NJB a la Mr. Sheffield but Jewish. Charming accent a plus but not a dealbreaker. Must love dogs, enjoy the outdoors, and be kindhearted. Reply here.
ASPIRING CONVERT LOOKING FOR FRIENDSHIP (late 20s). I live in the NoVA area of Virginia and am looking for a group of friends to plug into. Hobbies include dog walking, going to queer spaces, and hanging by fire pits. I have a super cool partner who enjoys the same. I would love to connect with converts and mentors alike! Reply here.
ALMOST 30 Y/O PARISIAN GIRL LOOKING FOR A MALE-TYPE SOMEONE to introduce to my parents, and maybe share a beautiful love story with. I’ve been called a “voluptuous yum-yum” on the internet, I will always be the first to dance on the bar, and am most likely planning some kind of trip somewhere. With you? Reply here.
BBE: BIG BUBBE ENERGY ISO her bashert. Almost 26 y/o gal, NYC native and therapist ISO a thoughtful and compassionate lover of Yiddishkeit with commiserate BBE or BZE (big zayde energy — all genders welcome!). Lover of soul music a plus, but lover of food is a must! Upper West Side, NYC. Reply here.
JEWBU BAY AREA WOMAN (mid-30s) looking for an intelligent, kind man to nap next to at the beach and sing poorly with in the car. Into rock climbing, comedy, NPR, psychology and smelling the jasmine blossoms in my neighborhood. Let me make dinner, but burn it a little because I get distracted by you. Reply here.
FULLY VACCINATED 21 Y/O NJG SEEKING NJG in western Mass or the DMV (I bounce around for school). Love talking about women’s rights, Harry Potter and one-pot dinner recipes. Must be bold enough to ask strangers if I can pet their dog because I chicken out sometimes. Reply here.
SPICY JEWESS (26, Edinburgh) seeks Spicy Jewish Man. Must be able to handle the spicy love I add to my dishes; food is my love language. I love to study and hope to one day be fluent in Hebrew. Brownie points if you can help. Book lover and crocheter extraordinaire, our Purim costumes will be amazing. Reply here.
CRAFTY HIGH SCHOOL JEW looking 4 a penpal who will do craft gift exchanges w me and let me write you letters abt queer jewish communism 🙂 i want 2 send u little drawings of my cats and tales of life. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted May 20, 2021:
BI WOMAN FEMINIST KILLJOY (29) seeks romance via witty banter and hot kinky sex in the Bay Area. Must love my grumpy pug as a son (and agree the only grandkids we can provide are dogs). My love language is Jewish mothering you with my vegetarian cooking and baking. Are you the Patrick to my David Rose? Reply here.
NJG OUT HERE IN ST. PAUL (21) looking for a spicy summer romance. Into reading, plants, swimming and eye contact. A bit neurotic but I make up for it with my dry humor and endless Pixar references. Will also accept friends, pen pals and lovers. Reply here.
CRAZY 20 Y/O GAY MIAMI BOY. Just looking for a man with Jewish values to spend the rest of my life with. About to graduate university next semester and getting my masters in anesthesia. Can someone cook for me? Reply here.
FEYGELE FROM LA (mid-20s) looking to meet a queer Chasid and/or native Yiddish speaker to teach me how to flirt in the mamaloshen. Strictly shmooze … or make me your Shabbos queen? Reply here.
26 Y/O WOMAN IN BOSTON SEEKS A NJB to have Shabbat dinner on Fridays, go hiking on Saturdays, and attempt the crossword on Sundays. By day I teach kids to talk, by night I dream about my future dog(s). I’ll teach you how to make challah if you reach the top shelves for me. Reply here.
BI ROMANTIC ASEXUAL GIRL FROM TORONTO (22 y/o) currently at veterinary school in London UK. You can tell your bubbie you’re dating a future “dogtor.” Anyone know where to get good bagels around here? Reply here.
ZAFTIG BOTTLE REDHEAD, 27, interested in art and architecture, seeks nice Jewish boy or girl in Houston with whom to watch old British comedy shows and visit museums. Kosher and shomer Shabbos not required. Similar age range preferred. Reply here.
JEWISH LESBIAN MOVING TO INDIANA for graduate school realized that in her new graduate program that there are no other Jewish people. Anyone in their mid 20s or above living in the Indianapolis area: I’d love to connect! Not necessarily looking for romance only, but would love to meet other sapphic women. Bonus points if you have a cute dog or cat I can hug and give pets to! Reply here.
STRIKING NJB SEEKING ANOTHER. 26 y/o Denver man looking for mister right, seeking a mensch who wants to be adventurous, travel, and is ready to be spoiled. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted May 6, 2021
GAY PSEUDO-GINGER IN AMSTERDAM (31 y/o) seeking Taika Waititi-type. Hobbies include Latin American history, reading about the Jewish diaspora on Wikipedia, and decorating my new apartment. My brand of Judaism is singing the Shehecheyanu when a friend had her first threesome. Want to be my boyfriend? Reply here.
MAPLE SYRUP LOVING MODOX 26 y/o Canadian man seeks a shomer shabbos woman to cuddle under quilts during the long winters and frolic amongst the fireflies during summer. Fresh out of grad school and willing to travel; let’s go on an adventure. Reply here.
ASPIRING CONVERT (25, nonbinary femme) seeking Jewish mentors and friends (any age and gender) in the Nashville area. In search of solidarity and guidance in exchange for my freshly baked goods and appetite for open-minded connection. Challah at me! Reply here.
LOOKING FOR THE CREAM CHEESE TO MY CAPER. I’m a 27-ish woman looking for an Ossoff-like guy to explore these strange pandemic times with. LA-based preferred. Reply here.
NICE JEWISH THEY (23/nb) in Montreal, looking for other queer Jews to befriend and/or smooch. When I’m not working at a vegan restaurant, I write indie folk music. I’m a lover of kvetching, cooking, baking (I can make bagels!) and Taylor Swift. Looking forward to connecting with other Shabbat Shalomosexuals! Reply here.
AMERICAN JEWESS LIVING IN LONDON (27, Scorpio) for graduate school looking to find my British beau. I’m just looking for someone to rule the world with (but not in a eldersofzionnewworldorder kind of way, just a cute power couple kind of deal). Reply here.
YOUNG PATRILINEAL UKRANIAN JEW FROM KRAKOW, searching for a pen pal to talk about Jewish communities all over the world, actors you didn’t know were Jewish, baking challah, and new shows on Netflix. I would share anything you want to know about the patrilineal Jewish Ukrainian struggle and send you a postcard from the Kazimierz (Jewish district of Krakow). Shall we? Reply here.
29 Y/O CURLY HAIRED JEWISH GAL recently relocated to Minneapolis after years of bouncing around the globe seeks a same-ish age gentleman and Jewish community to share post-pandemic Shabbat dinners with. Must love the outdoors and be willing to enable my baking/cooking habit. Reply here.
MIKE, 31, QUEENS NEW YORK, INTERESTED IN WOMEN, DOG DAD (DACHSHUND). Looking for a real in-person connection, a best friend and eventual partner. Enjoys weekly shiur, hosting dinners, and is a regular at the gym. Looking to connect for long-term. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted April 29, 2021
BE THE RACHEL GREEN TO MY MONICA GELLER IN NYC. Or the Abby to my Ilana (if they lived together). 23 y/o future Manhattanite seeking a roomie (or roomies) for summer 2021! If you are a 20-something looking for a chill, clean, Jew-ish space, HMU. Roomie refs available upon request. Reply here.
BOSTON AREA FRUM-ISH EGAL QUEER WOMAN SEEKS SAME. Me: mid-20s, voracious reader, Shabbat board game enthusiast, can be found running along the Charles listening to Taylor Swift. You: same age-ish, sparkling conversationalist with a balance of schtick and shtark, willing to keep a kosher kitchen but eat hot dairy out. Reply here.
MALE NPR LISTENER seeks other male self-aware elitist for Ina Garten seance. This mid-20s Chicago resident is looking for a partner in thyme for occasional Shabbat dinner parties, bar trivia, afternoons at the lake, and rezzies for two. Stanley Tucci — call me? Reply here.
27 Y/O SINGLE DOG MOM SEEKS FATHER FIGURE FOR DOG. Must be easy to laugh and willing to take the dog out during a Chicago winter. Reply here.
LOOKING FOR FRIENDS THAT ARE LOX OF FUN. Curious female/27/Milwaukee. Fancy an exhausted teacher that enjoys many conversation strands and asking questions? I always enjoy reading the stories and thoughts of others. Looking to connect with other Jewish folks. All yours for our standard postage rate. Reply here.
GAY ASPIRING LAWYER, 20, based out of Montreal. Currently taking care of Bubbie in quarantine like the classic NJB I aspire to be. Looking for someone to run with me in the morning and cuddle up to argue about the news at the end of the day. What I lack in height I make up for in Persian cooking. Reply here.
19 Y/O FRENCH (LYON) STUDENT IN PROCESS OF CONVERSION, looking for Jewish friends or more (I’m bi) to help me discover the best in Judaism. I like music, reading, movies, food, and really open to learning new things. Don’t be shy and text me. Reply here.
BORED IN THE BERKSHIRES. Lots of new folks have rolled into town over the last year while I’ve been looking for a COVID cutie of my own. I’m a seasoned local who knows good winter hiking spots and (secret) summer swimming holes. I’m a young female professional (26, no back pain yet!) working full time for a local non-profit until I move to Boston in August. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted April 22, 2021
IN THRALL TO THE GREEN OWL? Late 20s Jewish Brooklynite looking for a few of the same to make a Yiddish Groupchat while we try to keep our Duolingo streaks going and learn the mame loshn. Maybe when it’s safe we can use our drink ordering skills and have Yiddish Language Coffee Hour. Reply here.
BIOLOGICAL SCIENCES GRAD STUDENT (23/f) in Baton Rouge, looking for friends around the same age and maybe same occupation/interests. I miss having Jewish friends, and I’ve struggled to find a Jewish community I fit in in the area. I like anything outdoors, sports, good beer and food, and good books. Reply here.
MIDWESTERN TRADITIONAL REFORM RABBINICAL STUDENT living in Brooklyn (for now!) looking for their partner in kosher crime! Loves baking, reading, singing way too loudly on Shabbat, and talking about his time in Israel. Non-binary (he/they), 23, and looking for men/other non-binary folks. Reply here.
NEW YORK JEW RECENTLY TURNED LONDON JEW (26, female) looking for Jewish pals to show me where to find the best bagel on this side of the Atlantic. Reply here.
CURVY & CURLY NICE JEWISH GIRL (20-something) in Tel Aviv is looking for her open-minded and kind NJB. Hobbies include going to the beach, arts, writing, attending protests, and eye-rolling at hipsters. Reply here.
FUNNY GIRL LOOKING FOR LATE-IN-LIFE LOVE! Straight woman (61) living in the NYC tri-state area looking for love and companionship! Greatest joy is my daughter (28) with travel, museums, and Masterpiece Mystery tied for 2nd place. Must be a mensch. Larry David-esq kvetching accepted. Reply here.
27 Y/O SAN DIEGO OUTDOORSY REFORM JEWISH GAL looking for pals in America’s Finest City. Camping, hiking, coffee dates, brewery hoppin’, casual Shabbat dinners, trivia nights, making fun of movies so bad they’re good — did we just become best friends?! Join me on the quest for the best bagel in SD. Reply here.
NORTH CAROLINA-BASED JOURNALIST looking for someone to share memes and dreams and pictures of our day. 29, reform, white, she/her, bi/pan/queer, 2 dogs. Would love an in-person friend or something more romantic, but open to exploring any kind of relationship at any kind of distance. All genders loved and accepted, unless you’re a Virgo (kidding. Kind of). Reply here.
QUEER JEWISH POET & HISTORY STUDENT (20) seeking epistolary pals. Located in Amherst, MA but craving long distance written connections. Lover of trees, caffeinated beverages, and explaining away my life through astrology. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted April 15, 2021
NYC MAHJONG GAME? Did you grow up with the sounds of tiles being mixed? Do you want to experience the thrill of winning a whole 75 cents? We’re two mid-20s Jewish women who want to continue the tradition of a mahjong game. We’re beginners, so anyone in the NYC area who wants to learn with us is welcome! (We will not be getting those awful white lady “stylish” sets.) Reply here.
NON-BINARY MANHATTANITE WITH BABY FEVER. 36 y/o in a long-term and long-distance relationship looking for a platonic co-parent in NYC with whom to have and raise a Jewish child. Any gender OK, since we live in the future. No Republicans. Reply here.
BALTIMORE YENTA SEEKING ABBIS & ILANAS. 27 y/o bisexual gal, recently moved to Baltimore and ISO a gaggle of fellow kweens. Together we could: have high crafting nights, interpretative dance to Alanis Morrissette, do witchy shit, mimic Love Island accents, frolic in the outdoors, etc. Reply here.
27 Y/O NYC GAY MAN SEEKS YOUNG ELLIOT GOULD LOOKALIKE. Additional Barbra Streisand references welcome as we spend weeknights trying new NYC restaurants and spend the weekend road tripping across the northeast. Bonus points if you’re into cycling, theatre, and having an emergency babka in the house at all times. Reply here.
QUEER, CULTURALLY JEWISH PUNK NERD SEEKS SAME. Me: 29, curvy-short, femme, tattoos. You: A human person. Let’s read next to each other on the couch, scream-sing New Wave to each other, and see whose grandma’s brisket is better. Denver-area preferred, but, hey, whatever. Reply here.
MID-30s NJB SHUTTLING BETWEEN FORT COLLINS & AUSTIN/SA. Currently in grad school for music education. Punk rock bassist/vocalist and classical French horn player. Impulsive buyer of one-way tickets to countries I know next to nothing about. Would cherish a meaningful relationship with a NJG. Reply here.
PANSEXUAL PHILLY GIRL LOOKING FOR LOVE IN PITTSBURGH. Finally ready to let myself love again, and you should be, too. I’m a bit like the female version of Schmidt, looking for a CeCe or Nick to fall in love with. Gender doesn’t matter, but I’d prefer someone younger than 32. Reply here.
EX-ORTHODOX FEMALE ZILLENNIAL WRITER & ARTIST still vibing to chassidish music. Looking for a big ideas x big heart kinda guy in NYC to eat my food, exchange dope playlists, make Big Plans (travel, heal the world, bagels.), explore a new denomination (culturally Orthodox?), and read to me at night. Reply here.
PATRILINEAL JEW VERY EXCITEDLY BEING DUNKED IN THE MIKVEH (30F) to be Officially Jewish™️ by Halacha seeks friend/acquaintance/stranger to be there so I’m not alone. Will provide breakfast and wear a mask (am also fully vaccinated like any good dog) and will be your friend for as long as you want. From Tulsa, but being yeeted in the water in the DC area. Reply here.
Reply to a classified post April 7, 2021
JEWISH ELLIOT PAGE (27, nonbinary/transmasculine) seeks grounded, compassionate femme-leaning creative spirit for partnership and joy. Me: NYC-based, monog playwright with a penchant for old movies, Italian wine, and Southern literature, and a face your Bubbe will love. Reply here.
MID 20S FEMALE CHICAGO TOWNIE SEEKS NJB. Accidental Jewish professional born and raised in the windy city looking for leftist Nice Jewish Boy. Must be down with community organizing, taste testing my challah experiments, listening to This American Life, picking up bagels on Sunday mornings, and long walks on the 606. Reply here.
UNDER-ROMANCED ROMANTIC IN AUSTIN, TX! Twenty-something NJG seeking same, must love dogs and Shakespeare. Let me bake you vegan challah, write you love poetry, and tell you funny stories about my middle school students. Reply here.
21 Y/O GUY FROM AMSTERDAM looking for someone to (virtually) talk about what Judaism can mean in a modern world. Reply here.
LOOKING FOR A DYKE TO DISAPPOINT MAIMONIDES WITH. 31 y/o Portland Jewish goblingirlthing. Passionate about Judaism, nihilist memes, dancing in the dark, finding myself. Are you looking for yourself too? Maybe we can meet in the middle. (Long distance okay.) Reply here.
STRAIGHT JEWISH MAN STUDYING FOR A PhD (26) in North London. Looking for guinea pigs and love. Will provide Finsbury Park beigels in return for experiment participation. Ideal participant should enjoy birdwatching, Pilates, and bringing in the Shabbas with some smooth — or rough — jazz. Reply here.
A PHILLY GIRL (32) moving to Tel Aviv with her Israeli husband. Looking for new friends to go with the new life! Big fan of being outdoors, drag queens, and bourekas. Reply here.
NYC DOG LOVER SEEKS HUMAN PILLOW. This 31 y/o enjoys long walks on the beach (Riverside Park), tragic old photos, and a balanced diet of Sweetgreen and chocolate. Seeking a man who can make her laugh while checking the closet for monsters. Ready for her Safta to stop asking if she’s still single. Reply here.
OUTGOING BALTIMORE-BASED AGNOSTIC JEW (23) currently working in Major League Baseball. Enthusiastic about space, photography, sitcoms, Spongebob memes, and dogs. Looking to make local friends with similar interests!! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted April 1, 2021
24 Y/O GAY JEWISH PLANT DAD seeking DILF-in-training. I’m a medical student in Miami — I know, the Jewish doctor bit has been done — but I promise I can outshine others with some good Mizrahi cooking skills, an easygoing demeanor, and my post-braces smile. Reply here.
LESBIAN BOCHUR4BOCHUR. What if… we kissed in the yeshiva… but we were both women? Looking for a dyke with Avigdor energy for fierce & hot Talmud debates that end with you clamping your hand over my mouth. 25/London, UK. Reply here.
WRITING NERD STUCK AT HOME SEEKS PENPAL. Passionate about baking, Broadway, comics & geeking out over Jewish representation in books, movies, TV, etc. I’m currently a college girl, so must be 18-23. Can’t wait to meet you, new friend! Reply here.
18 Y/O ANXIETY-FILLED JEWISH GIRL looking for a NJB to connect with in Leiden (the Netherlands). Must be comfortable with awkward silences, my inability to bake challah, and my ongoing affair with the temptation to disappear into the Scottish highlands. Reply here.
CAST IRON QUEER SEEKS ROMANTIC LOVE. Let’s cook a meal others would call too rich with ingredients from our garden, then share cleanup as we dance in the kitchen. Seeking deep love to grow in tenderness together. 28, non-binary, white, disabled, Jewish, in therapy. North Carolina locals to the front! Reply here.
YOUNG 20s GAL LOOKING FOR FRIENDSHIP IN DC. Previously spent a year convincing Jewish grandmothers to vote. Trying to build the ULTIMATE squad of bakers, hikers, and kvetchers. We will go on adventures big (maybe going tubing in Richmond, VA) and small (dancing down the street to get bagels). Reply here.
IRAQI JEWISH TEXAN GAL seeks NJB. 38 y/o in Austin looking for funny, kind bear that appreciates a perfect everything bagel. Long distance OK. I’ll make coffee if you take us on a road trip to nowhere in particular. I can cook but you won’t love it — I have cuddles and awful jokes to make up for it. Reply here.
TORONTO MUSIC NERD WITH A NUT ALLERGY (29). Ladies, he’s got it all! I’m a songwriter, jazz student, and Beach Boys fanboy. Looking for a musical/artistic woman that can put my record collection and shakshuka recipe to shame (yes, that is a challenge). Let’s take it slow and see where we go ✌🏻 Reply here.
27 Y/O REFORM JEWESS IN VANCOUVER, BC looking for a Jewish best friend to have morning coffee dates, late night drinks, and long walks to Solley’s together. My interests include tattoos, video games, and reading. Anyone interested in getting greasy takeout and binge watching The Office? Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted March 25, 2021
TRADITION, TRADITION… Parents met via a Jewish newspaper classifieds ad so here I am hoping their luck is genetic. Female (21) from CA living in PA, moving to NY. Loves music, dance, and languages. Reform/Conservative, likes men/women. Seeking a well-spoken, funny partner who loves music and the arts. Reply here.
9th GENERATION JAMAICAN OF SEPHARDIC DESCENT (m), Irish Catholic (p), 29, 6’2 and tons of fun, references avail. Looking for a bright, strong, independent woman with a smile that melts hearts to explore, adventure, and grow with. Sailor, brewer, director of synagogue. On-island or willing to try. Reply here.
LOOKING FOR LOVE WITHOUT PROCREATION. 37yo Ashkenazi cis/het woman in the Bay Area. Teacher, anti-racist, reader, intellectual, sassy. I love integrity, wits, and some height (I’m 5’8″). In person preferred, if you’re in my homeland (LA, CA) that’s okay, too. 😉 Reply here.
BLACK JEWISH NON-BINARY POLY FEMME looking for a femme friend in the Salt Lake City area. Late 30s, looking for same or older. We could be just friends, it could develop into something more. Open to all possibilities. I love anime, video games, and shopping at Trader Joe’s. Reply here.
EX-SOVIET RUSSIAN-SPEAKING JEWISH GRANDMA (90) seeking pen/phone pal. Located in the greater Chicago area but open to pen pals from other areas. Freshly widowed and vaccinated, so bittersweet is the current vibe. Willing to part with my borscht recipe for friendship. Reply here.
SEEKING A GAY EUROPEAN NICE JEWISH BOY. I’m an 18 y/o male, Sephardic, Reform Jew and a first year uni student looking for another guy I can connect and travel with. I’m a hopeless romantic who loves theatre, books, indie music/films, and anything Ben Platt. I’m open to anyone in Europe, just be around my age. Reply here.
QUEER STONER NEW TO TOWN. Me: Trans man, 23, recently moved to Brooklyn, looking for friends and a relationship, absolutely loves to cook, and will also clean dishes after! You: Any gender, loves food, not an asshole, and lover of the Oxford comma. Reply here.
WEIRDO ARTSY PROFESSIONAL SEEKING SOULMATE (WSM). I am a 30yo baby doctor in Chicago who loves Yiddish, my tiny dog, art, movies, bird watching, reality TV, the moon, and eating pasta. Ideal date night involves sharing lofty ideas, screaming about radical social justice, and giggling. Reply here.
FEMALE PHOTOGRAPHER making work about Jewish ritual and collective memory. Just moved to New England and am looking to connect with new people to photograph! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted March 18, 2021:
SEEKING MY BI BASHERT. NJB (nice Jewish bisexual) seeking other nice Jewish bisexuals for a blue-purple-pink hued love story. 24 and moving to NYC soon, where we can hold hands and walk across bridges like an indie film. Let’s get a jumpstart on our forever and text to pass the time. Reply here.
QUEER & ANGRY & I CAN’T DRIVE. (19) I’ve been told I give off forest fairy vibes. If you live in LA can I please pet your dog? Or cat, I’m not prejudiced. I like plants more than people but I’m looking for new friends to help me plant flowers. Reply here.
SOUTHERN NJB SEEKS HIS JEWISH QUEEN. Looking for a girl who values education, career goals, and Jewish identity as much as I do. Points for being a musician/artist like I am. Will impress your parents and Bubbe or your money back! Reply here.
23-YEAR-OLD SLIGHTLY ANXIOUS JEWISH GIRL working in fashion, looking for other nice/stylish/fun Jews in the Tokyo area. I have yet to find any other Jews here so wondering if we exist? I’m looking for a friend I can confide in! Reply here.
BUXOM JEWESS SEEKS JEWISH FEMINIST BASHERT. 28-year-old baby rabbi w/ great curls & glasses game. Enjoys: niggunim, cholent, Torah. Hobbies: making crafts, writing poems, Netflix. You: a self-actualized man who wears Tevas, Berks, or Chacos, & is ready for this jelly. NY-based, new-job-&-city-bound. Reply here.
27-YEAR-OLD QUEER JEWTINA IN PHILLY looking for my vivacious NJG beshert. I love microbreweries, kosher Latin food, and come with two adorable rescue dogs. Let’s plan post-vaccination road trips over tehina shakes from Goldie. Based in PHL but open to PGH/NYC-area NJGs. Reply here.
ALLERGY-BRACELET WEARING STRAIGHT FEMALE (21) looking for a gentle soul who is okay avoiding shellfish so my throat doesn’t close. Would love a NF NJB (nut-free NJB) to bake with, sing poorly with, and take art classes with. I am based in the Cleveland area but willing to travel for love. Reply here.
25-YEAR-OLD LOOKING FOR A PEN PAL! Interested in unique ways to be Jewish, true crime, reading & book clubs, & crafting. Based in NOLA but happy to write to anyone, anywhere! Really hoping to find someone who is interested in a long term pen pal friendship, not just 1 or 2 letters. With patience tho, ofc. Reply here.
HEART-CENTERED EMPATH SEEKING SAME. 27-year-old jewess in search of an LA-based hebrew, shebrew, or theybrew who shares a love of kitty cats, ‘90s fashion, hip hop, antiquing, and intersectional feminism. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted March 11, 2021:
SEEKING THE MAYA TO MY NATASHA. New-to-the-Tribe elder millennial searching for a co-star to share pop culture hot takes, existential dread, & equal billing on the inevitable film about the healing effect our witty banter will have on humanity. Deep love of late ‘90s pop strongly encouraged. Reply here.
EXHAUSTED, SINGLE, AND 30. Nice queer Jewish girl looking for a nice queer Jewish girl to live through this forever pandemic with. Comes with dying plants, a love of true crime, documentaries, road trips, and parents who are desperate for a wedding and grandchildren. Near spooky scary Salem, MA. Reply here.
NJB IN MINNEAPOLIS (26) seeks a local Jewish gal to enjoy Shabbat dinners, rooftop breweries, and lake life. Let’s peruse the aisles of Costco together and talk about scuba diving. If you’re a fan of cabin snuggles and making sushi, we may just be beshert. Hoping to make my mother proud! Reply here.
WRITE WITH ME. West Coast lefty, queer, Mexican, femme, and budding Jewish calligrapher seeking a chevruta to beautify the letters, share notes on a balanced reish, and practice writing lefty one-liners (tzedek, tzedek tirdof; na’aseh v’nishma). I use she/her pronouns, live in Seattle, and go to bed early. Let’s write together! Reply here.
27-YEAR-OLD QUEER LADY CAPRICORN dipping my toes back into the NYC dating life with the vaccine on the horizon. I love the beach and I miss going dancing. Down for distance dates, flirty texting & maybe more. All genders, no assholes. Reply here.
NEW CONVERT LOOKING FOR LOVE. 23 years old nonbinary/transmasc (he/they), bisexual, Philly-based, Reconstructionist convert. Seeking fun, passionate person that loves poetry and television and movies. Message me what your fave Jewish holiday is and fave Jewish TV character. 20+ only please. Reply here.
28-YEAR-OLD JEWESS FROM TORONTO looking for my NJB. JSwipe just isn’t cutting it for me these days. I bake a mean challah and am great with Bubbies and Zaidies. You’ll really want to take me home to meet them. Willing to relocate. Reply here.
YOU AND ME ON THE COUCH, cats curled up nearby. My head is on your lap, you stroking my hair while you read me your favourite words about liberation. Tell me what those would be. Me: 32, queer femme, double fire sign, based in Belgium. Looking for 27+, no cis men pls. Reply here.
SEEKING JEWISH CONTINUITY (AKA SPERM PLEASE). Jewish postdoc researcher in CA wants a baby, and no further obligation from you. It’s a mitzvah, let’s make a v cute, future doctor. Nerds to the front, please, and especially interested in Mizrahi donors. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted March 4, 2021:
AMERICAN LOST IN TEL AVIV. 25-year-old female looking for a curly haired boy with a goofy sense of humor to go on long camping trips and start a stardew valley co-op farm with. Let’s fight about the correct way to make latkes. Based in TLV but moving to the DC area soon so open to any. Reply here.
GOING POSTAL & LOOKING FOR PEN PALS. Typewriter and vintage stamp-loving Chicago millennial (she/her) is seeking pen pals from anywhere and everywhere. Global and stateside welcome. Interests include: theatre, baking, Jewish king Jack Antonoff’s impact on pop music, and Stanley Tucci’s new Italy show. Reply here.
STRAIGHT CREATIVE-TYPE DORKY MALE SEEKING BESHERT. Me: Writer and software guy (32) looking for a challah-baking better half (the better shouldn’t be hard) in/around PA to accompany me on adventures (read: netflix and cheese). Must like energetic Pomeranians and a good kvetch. Reply here.
LOOKING TO HAVE A BIG LESBIAN CRUSH ON YOU. Me: nice Jewish girl. You: nice Jewish doctor/lawyer/pharm girl or similar. Let’s binge watch Schitt’s Creek, take our shelter dogs to the brewery, and bake hamantaschen with Bubbe. Near ATL. Reply here.
20-YEAR-OLD MODERN ORTHODOX GIRL in New York City looking for my bochur to go on long Shabbos walks with and explore all the kosher restaurants in New York City. I need the beshert of my dreams so the ladies at shul stop asking to set me up with their grandsons. Reply here.
QUEER JEWISH FEMME STONER (26) seeks affectionate anti-capitalist living near D.C. Me: consent educator from CA. Likes cooking, music, dancing, nature, and reality tv. Ready to shower you w/ affirmations & memes. ISO: witty, tender, monog cutie, down for communication, cuddles, and collective liberation. Reply here.
LATE TWENTIES WRITER IN ZURICH, SWITZERLAND SEEKING FRIENDSHIP. Looking for another Jewish woman to go on hikes, have coffee outside, talk art, Judaism, books, and writing. Reply here.
SOON-TO-BE 30-YEAR-OLD STUDENT RABBI looking for his future rebbetzer. British-educated American-Israeli citizen with a playful streak, looking for like-minded. Interest in politics, literature, art, and food a plus. Brooklyn-based — let’s grab a drink, share a laugh, and heal the world. Reply here.
OFF THE DERECH & STILL HAVEN’T FOUND WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR. Separated from our tradition in my teens, looking to explore it again in my late 20s. Seeking someone to relearn and reclaim our texts with, through virtual chevruta. Expect lefty politics, irreverent jokes about rabbis, and rusty Aramaic. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted Feb 25, 2021:
GAY MIDWEST SNACK SEEKS SAME. You: caring, courageous, gay. Me: 29/queer/Reform/Chicago/cis male, here for lakeshore strolls, working the polls, abolitionist goals. Thinks most things would be better with a Google doc but not pushy about it. Open to friends, dates, and even shtetling down someday. Reply here.
LOOKING FOR THE STEVEN SPIELBERG TO MY KATE CAPSHAW, except if Kate Capshaw were 22, from SoCal, and was adopted from China by her Jewish mother and secular father. I may be Ch-ewish, but that isn’t stopping me for looking for a mensch. Let’s use the Netflix party feature until theaters open again. Reply here.
GENDERQUEER ASHKENAZI TATTOOER PUNK seeks like-minded pals for zine swaps and kvetches! Are you into human rights, bagel breakfast sandwiches, and art projects? Let’s be friends! Trans Jews to the front! Reply here.
SINGLE, 30-SOMETHING MALE IN LONDON, UK, seeks pandemic pen-pal, eventual best friend, partner in crime, and soulmate for a combination of curiosity-sating adventures and comfy, silly nights in. Looking for the Pond/Shellstrop/Santiago/Ludgate/Knope to my respective Rory/Chidi/Jake/Andy/Ben. Reply here.
MODERN ORTHODOX & UNCOMMON ABOUT IT. 31 y/o Philly woman, hardworking but also loves rambunctious Shabbos dinners, rotund animals, singing, nature walks, and stellar coffee. Seeks curious, confident man 4 enduring love. Be into your Judaism and bring banter game that would wow the authors of the Talmud. Reply here.
LOOKING FOR MY SHAH. 25 y/o straight gal. Located in Ontario, Canada. Oldest daughter in a Persian family (’nuff said). Looking for a NJB to call my partner in crime. Note: You will be fed well. Reply here.
THIRTY-SOMETHING MARRIED LADY IN THE MIDWEST currently trying to get pregnant with her first Nice Jewish Baby, looking to connect with someone in the same boat. Bonus points if you like reading, dogs, and/or The Real Housewives. Reply here.
BISEXUAL L.A.-BASED LEFTIST (23, cis man) looking for a queer 20-something romantic partner who shares my fervent obsession with pop culture, TikTok, and the alt stand-up comedy scene. Tell me your top four movies and TV shows and I’ll write back if it seems like a good match 🙂 Reply here.
LITERAL GAY DIVORCÉ. French, suitably cute, and neurotic. Looking for kindly sarcastic partner to queer-havruta our way through mid-life crisis and world pandemic, in such order. Already daydreaming about our long-term long-distance textual relationship. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted Feb 18, 2021:
HUMBLE ARTIST WITH BIG DREAMS. Baltimore 31yo straight guy. Wishing for love and cuddles but there’s a pandemic. I love amateur singing, cooking, fantasy stories, animation, movies, cats. Would like to talk with you and say hi. Bernie Sanders in the streets / Leonard Cohen in the sheets. Reply here.
PUPPIES & PUZZLES. That’s my love language. I’m an 84 years young mainline Jew (outside of Philly). Looking for a companion to speak on the phone with about classical music, grandchildren, and golden retrievers. Reply here.
JEWISH FARMER IN NC (38, cis woman) looking for a magical, silly, feminist, confident, nerdy man to fall in love with. Open to long distance until you can move to NC and we can drink coffee in bed, listen to D&D podcasts, play in the woods, and spend Shabbat singing with our rad Jewish community. Reply here.
POST-SOVIET JEWESS FROM BROOKLYN LOOKING FOR MULTILINGUAL LOVE. Russian heritage speaker noncommittally learning Yiddish + Hebrew. Really into TV and laughing at antisemitism to cope. Seeking early to mid-20s boyfriend in the NYC/Hudson Valley area. Reply here.
HAPA JEWISH COLLEGE STUDENT currently on Oahu looking for any Jews who grew up in Hawaii. Interested in talking and sharing experiences. Reply here.
LONDONER LOOKING FOR LOVE (28) Gay cis-man looking for someone to support me on my journey to embracing my Jewish curls, buy me biscuits and learn Queer Torah together. Be the David to my Jonathan (but with a happy ending). Reply here.
LESBIAN JEW LOOKING FOR LOVE IN THIS LONELY WORLD. Violinist & hopeless romantic. Write me a love letter with your favourite Jewish quote and I’ll write you back. Montreal, 18-22 only. Reply here.
YOUNG, NEUROTIC, MILLENNIAL in the process of converting seeks friend to connect with over Judaism as well as reading, crafting, being neurodivergent, or really anything. Hoping for a modern day pen pal. With love from your future friend 🙂 Reply here.
HUGE NERD SEEKS SAME IN NYC: 27 year old lesbian looking for someone to take long walks with and go on deep dives into what we’re reading and the world. Tell me the random thoughts on your mind and I’ll bake you sourdough challah. Let’s escape the city and our isolation in my car and explore the wild. I got all my (moderna) shots. Reply here.