Feeling lonely? You’re not alone. Even before a pandemic made socializing a risk to your health, it’s never been easy to find *your* people. But we want to help. One of the joys of watching the Hey Alma community expand is seeing our readers connect with each other, whether it’s flirting in the comments of our Instagram page or finding a fellow Jew in a small town to reach out to. Now, we’re taking our matchmaking to the next level with the launch of Hey Alma Classifieds, an old-school way to make new connections. Whether you’re in the market for a romantic partner, friends, or just someone with a dog you can pet, we’re here to help you find what you’re looking for.
How to submit:
In your classified, please tell us who you are and what you’re looking for (but keep it anonymous, i.e. no names!). Are you looking for love? Friendship? A pen pal? Classifieds often include your hobbies or fun facts, but include whatever feels right and authentic to you. If you’re looking for an in-person connection, please include your location (as general or specific as you want!), or if you’re looking for a virtual or long-distance thing, you can note that as well. Give a sense of your age (doesn’t have to be exact if you don’t want it to be) and keep your text to 300 characters or less. Need some inspiration? Check out these examples from some of our favorite fictional Jews.
We can’t wait to read yours!
Please note that not all classifieds will be listed. We’re a small team, and we only have limited matchmaking capacity, but we’re trying our very best to help you find love/friendship/a dog. Xoxo, Team Hey Alma.
Submit a classified here:
https://forms.gle/gXiG2dZdCo7Pt3Hn6
Reply to a classified posted on May 15, 2025:
20 Y/O PROGRESSIVE FRENCH NJG LOOKING FOR FRIENDS, PEN-PALS AND MORE IN FRANCE OR ABROAD. Artsy but studying law. Looking for people to talk cinema, vintage fashion, music or literature (Kafka lovers please message me). Let’s go out for live music in a pub or have a nice girls night out! Reply here.
25F NURSING STUDENT IN BOSTON LOOKING FOR A SWEET, SMART NJB. Love reading, traveling, trying new restaurants, and crushing the NYT games. Let’s grab a coffee or debate the best bagel spot. Bonus points if you still remember your bar mitzvah portion. Reply here.
BROOKLYN LEFTY NJG (30) looking for love. Bisexual and open to people of all genders. Love to make pottery, bike, cook & host meals w/ friends & family. Help me eat all the things I bake! I’m observant but not very – I do the major holidays. But I’m open to however Jewish, Jew-ish or not Jewish you are. Reply here.
28 Y/O NJB LOOKING FOR A NJG IN SACRAMENTO, CA. Looking for an excuse to make kugel, please give me one. Let’s watch “The Sopranos” and talk about Kabbalah. Looking for something serious while trying not to take life too seriously. Reply here.
SOCAL NJB (25) looking for his person. I have a college degree, great job & all my sh*t together. I love the outdoors, mountain biking and racing cars. Just hoping to find someone interesting who doesn’t need to party or go to bars. Let’s travel the world together! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on May 8, 2025:
MEXICAN (NICE-ISH?) JEWISH BOY (32/NYC) seeking other Jewish gay men to be opera buddies. Come to the Met Opera with me, grab a drink after, exchange brisket recipes and who knows? Maybe something else will come out of it. Reply here.
20 Y/O QUEER JEWISH GIRL LOOKING FOR ANOTHER JEWISH GIRL IN LONDON. very sporty (rugby 🫶🏼). loves history and politics as well as arts. please slide into my dms. Reply here.
OUTDOORSY LESBIAN NJENBY IN PORTLAND, OR (31) ISO friends & partners who will explore everything Jewish this strange city has to offer, ranging from unaffiliated radical minyans to Orthodox shuls. Reply here.
25F HARVARD GRAD STUDENT LOOKING FOR AN NJB TO ENJOY SUMMER IN BOSTON WITH! Show me your favorite rooftop bar, brewery or vibey coffee shop! Bonus points if you also enjoy traveling, reading and working out 🙂 Reply here.
EQUAL PARTS CHUTZPAH AND CHARM, BASED IN NYC. Can quote “Fiddler” and freestyle rap. I’m a 23M professional actor – yes, I can cry on cue and pretend to enjoy brunch with your grandma – looking for an NJG. Looking for someone to duet with on stage, at diners and maybe one day… in diaper duty? Too soon? Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on May 1, 2025:
23F FROM CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA ISO A NICE JEWISH BOYFRIEND TO BRING TO SHABBOS. Must be funny and must be able to handle my uncle’s terrible jokes. Reply here.
39 Y/O MELBOURNE NJG. Big laugh, big bod (size 16), bigger heart. Seeking mensch who loves sci-fi, challah, rizzy banter and has a high EQ. Must love adventure, deep chats and building something real. Let’s make our mothers proud. Reply here.
30 Y/O QUEER JEWTINA LOOKING FOR A WOMAN OR ENBY TO CAPTURE THEIR CORAZÓN. In Seattle and looking for a queer Jewish cutie to spend weekends with, backpacking, urban exploring and biking around town. Bonus points if you want to become a parent. Reply here.
NJB LOOKING FOR A NJG TO BE THE JESSE PINKMAN TO MY WALTER WHITE (22/NYC). I work in healthcare/education. I am: compassionate, straightforward and honest. I like to talk a lot, run, read and enjoy simple pleasures. If this is you, too, don’t be shy 🙂 Reply here.
40 Y/O NJG LOOKING FOR NJB IN TWIN CITIES. Let’s grab brunch on the weekend or go for a walk around the lake. Must love bagels, laughing and having fun. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on April 25, 2025:
24M JUST MOVED TO SINGAPORE! Looking for any Jewish connections to build some community with. Think chill Shabbat dinner vibes. Hobbies include rock climbing, live music, travel, good convos and more! Reply here.
POLYAMOROUS ISRAELI-AMERICAN WOMAN (37) living in the UK seeks comet partner of any gender in NYC. I visit often and would love to develop a warm, caring relationship. Let’s enjoy picnics, walks, gigs and lazy afternoons. I love theater, reading, swimming and traveling. I value kindness above all. Reply here.
23 Y/O GAY SEPHARDIC NJB LOOKING FOR A NJB IN S.F. BAY AREA! I am looking to meet someone who is relationship-oriented so we won’t waste each other’s time. Let’s grab a cup of coffee and talk in a cute park on a nice sunny day! I love art museums, walks/hikes and enjoying a nice time together. Reply here.
20F TWIN CITIES NJG SEEKING OUT FUN-LOVING PALS (OR A NJB). Must love dancing like no one’s watching, cooking questionable meals and tossing a frisbee in the park. Must enjoy the occasional shenanigan and/or tomfoolery. Bonus points if you love concerts, carbs and dumb jokes. Reply here.
QUEER CONSERVATIVE-ISH CHICAGOAN (24/SHE/HER) LOOKING FOR LOVE. I’m a reader and a museum-loving, ice cream-devouring, East Coast transplant. Teach me how the Midwest works! ISO my wife, but would settle for friends closer than 600 miles away 🙂 Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on April 17, 2025:
NJB (23) WITH A HASIDIC BACKGROUND (CURRENTLY CONFUSED) IN BROOKLYN. ISO Zionist NJG for a summer fling that just might last forever. Let’s spend Shabbos wandering Prospect Park, and Sundays lounging on the beach. We can whisper sweet nothings in Hebrew and Yiddish, catch every sunset and watch the stars go around. Reply here.
NONBINARY TRANSMASC (21/THEY/THEM) SEEKING SLOW LOVE IN NYC. I’m an anti-Zionist, extroverted English literature student — send me your favorite poem! Raised secular but curious about Judaism. Let’s go on wacky daytime adventures and then dance the night away! Reply here.
STRAIGHT & TRANS NJB (36/Austin, TX) looking for a monogamous life partner. I’m a bartender, so I have terrible hours, but I’ll make you a great cocktail! Reply here.
RAISED-REFORM JEWISH BOYCHIK (30) seeking havruta(ot) for in-person study (Torah and beyond!) in the greater Salt Lake City area. On a journey of figuring out what it means for myself to live a Jewish life in the context of this time and place. Reply here.
AMAZING JEWISH WOMAN (58) LIVING ON UWS IN NYC. Our mom is independent, fun, warm, loving, adventurous, BEAUTIFUL & physically fit. She has two super cool grown daughters (we’re not biased) & a career she loves. She’s seeking a connection with a Jewish man. Is this your cool single dad? Must love animals and be a good person. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on April 10, 2025:
36 Y/O NY COLOMBIAN JEWESS IN BOGOTÁ SEARCHING FOR HER JEW CREW. Looking for friends to be loud with, chill out with and explore the city with. Also seeking last-minute Passover Seder plans 😬! Reply here.
WHAT THE HELL IS GENDER (35/“M”/Pittsburgh). Kinky, masculine, gym-rat creative questioning the delineating lines of gender for the first time and looking for a NJG (or femme) to serenade and sit shotgun on this journey. Reply here.
28-YEAR-OLD NJB IN OREGON LOOKING FOR FRIENDS OR A NJG. I’m on the spectrum and don’t have a ton of experience dating. I love video games, basketball and am a biology nerd. Let’s talk and get to know each other! Reply here.
QUEER FEMME WOMAN (40) into all genders, leftist politics and small scale adventures. ISO smart, curious, weird fellow anti-Zionist in NYC for friendship, magic and hopefully romance. Reply here.
21M FROM CANADA LOOKING FOR F FROM ANYWHERE! Zionist, liberal, Modern Ortho(dox, not dontist). If you know what a nuzlocke is, I will immediately fall for you. If not, it might take an additional 3 minutes. Come bake babka with me? Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on April 3, 2025:
SAVE ME FROM THE APPS (37M, NYC). Musical, politically left, emotionally available, cat-allergic, child-free man seeking a she or they filled with curiosity, warmth and humor! Must love food on a spiritual level. Reply here.
MOSTLY STRAIGHT NJB IN OAKLAND CA (36) seeking monogam-ish life partner, kids maybe? Witty, cuddly, raised in a Conservative shul/day school. Neuroscience researcher. Lefty politics, feminism, cooking, improv, trivia, deep connections. Spoonie & transplant patient. Allergic to most pets, sorry. Reply here.
22-YEAR-OLD AUTISTIC JEWISH SEATTLE TRANS GIRL SEEKING NJB. Hobbies include ballet, reading, cooking and exploring the city on public transit. Reform and anti-Zionist. Currently in college. Reply here.
SLC TRANSPLANT LOOKING FOR FRIENDS (25F) Me: moving from ATL for psych residency — know no one, but bringing my cute dog! Loves crafts, food and spicy margs. You: want a silly, but empathic friend. Love to complain! Like to laugh. Willing to (literally) pick me up as I learn to ski. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on March 27, 2025:
DOES YOUR SISTER/DAUGHTER/NIECE NOT RETURN YOUR CALLS? I’m a queer, married, Reform Jewish woman in her 30s in the U.S. Midwest seeking community and friendships. Long distance is fine! Let’s talk about books and bond over kvetching. Reply here.
DALLAS-AREA NJB LOOKING FOR A NJG TO BE THE YEE TO MY HAW (26M). I enjoy expensive coffee, long walks & spontaneous weekend trips. Looking for a trivia partner & someone to kvetch about family with. My ideal partner is someone who stays active, is spiritually connected & appreciates Torah values/tradition. Reply here.
33 Y/O NJG SEEKING FUN DATES WITH NJB IN PHILLY. Love being in nature, baking challah and reading. Looking for a guy with a big heart and active lifestyle. Bonus points if you have a dog. Let’s have a deep/silly convo over pizza, see a comedy show or go to a museum. Reply here.
EARLY 30S NJG IN D.C. LOOKING FOR HER NJB! Must love theater, video games, books and dogs. Let’s chat and see if it’s bashert 😉 Reply here.
ENGLISH EDUCATION MAJOR (18F) in NYC seeking friends or a partner. I’m currently in the conversion process and would love to build a great community of converts and other Jews. Anyone who keeps tznius is also EXTREMELY welcomed. Looking for advice and support on this journey! Into creative writing! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on March 20, 2025:
25 Y/O QUEER NJG LIVING IN ESSEX, UK. I moved here from South Africa after the pandemic and I’m looking for community and friends! If you love art, musical theater, comedy and pop culture then I’m your gal! Making friends in your 20s is hard, so why don’t we embark on this awkward journey together? Reply here.
NJG IN KANSAS CITY ISO NJB! Early 20s, dancer, assistant camp director & educator. Looking for someone involved in the Jewish world, outgoing, but always down for a night in with some trashy reality TV. Grew up in the USY world so I would consider myself Conservative. Reply here.
29 Y/O REFORM NJB IN CHICAGO LOOKING FOR MY BESHERT. I work in film and television and am open to leaving Chicago if the right opportunity arises. I enjoy having an active lifestyle that includes biking regularly, cooking, writing, photography, listening to music, and more. Reply here.
31F NEW-TO-TOWN PITTSBURGHER NEEDS FRIENDS. Seeking adventure-loving, strictly platonic, post-grad and pre-family demographic gal pals who love Judaism, complaining about halacha, hiking, gardening and watching “The Bachelorette.” People with dogs are totally fine. Reply here.
OVERTHINKING MID-20S NJG. I’m looking for queer Orthodox friends in Australia. I want to connect with people with similar backgrounds who can relate. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on March 13, 2025:
25M CHILDFREE NJB IN LA LOOKING FOR MY ESTHER. You: love reading and the outdoors. Me: give great hugs, will take you salsa dancing. I prefer adventurous days and chill nights (dinner parties, board games) over the other way around. Reply here.
37F US JEW MOVING TO MELBOURNE, AUS AND LOOKING FOR COMMUNITY! Musical theatre/classical music nerd. Friendship bonuses: I have an absurdly cute dog and am getting pretty good at pavlovas and cheddarmite babka! Reply here.
25-YEAR-OLD TRANS GUY (HE/THEY) LOOKING FOR FRIENDS & MAYBE LOVE? Liverpool-based, but open to anyone in the UK. I’ve started my journey towards Judaism & would love to meet someone on a similar path. I love reading manga & history books, and enjoy music of all sorts. I’m your guy if you like bagels, hummus and vegan junk food. Reply here.
SEEKING LOVE IN UPSTATE NY (24/F): Pre-K teacher who likes kids, but whose true love is for her two tuxedo cats. Looking for a soulmate whose fave snack is also potato chips. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on February 27, 2025:
MID-30S NJG SEEKING NJB IN PHILADELPHIA. Let’s go hiking, see shows, discuss the madness of the world and host game nights with friends. A city girl who hopes to one day split her time by a lake, looking for a man who is humble, inspiring, kind and handsome. Is it you? Reply here.
40-YEAR-OLD AUSTRALIA-BASED NJG SEEKING JEWISH PEN PALS. Let’s kvetch, and exchange holiday cards, stickers and recipes. Reply here.
27-YEAR-OLD FEMALE LOOKING FOR GAL PALS IN TORONTO. Moved from Arizona a couple years ago. I do improv around the city, love yummy eats, live a very active life and love going on new adventures. I’d love to meet more like-minded girlfriends in the city! Reply here.
YOUNG QUEER JEWS IN EUROPE? Heavily Jewish-ly involved scientist seeking Shabbat dinner guests, book club participants, Talmudic debate buddies, dance partners, fellow bird enjoyers and life partners (sapphic, 27X, Nordic, kids a must). Come drop me a book rec + tell why you liked it? Reply here.
29 Y.O. SECULAR JEW (HE/HIM/THEY/THEM) IN CHAPEL HILL, NC. I’m looking for connection that could lead to romance. If you’re book-ish & political (or enjoy being around people who are) I’m sure we’ll have plenty to talk about! This place has felt lonely for the last year. I would love to meet more Jews my age. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on February 13, 2025:
LOOKING FOR QUEER JEWISH FRIENDS IN LIMA! I’m a 19-year-old trans person and it’s really hard to find progressive Jews in the area. I love goofing around, walking and having deep conversations. Reply here.
TICHEL-WEARING MARRIED MOTHER OF ONE-UNDER-1 (22) seeking other young Jewish wives & mothers to become online friends! Reply here.
JEWLICIOUS ENBY FEMME (43) ISO sapphic babe or menschy NJB for friendship &/or more. Looking for my person to be extra Jewish w/, get those cuddles in & celebrate Friday nights w/ candles, challah & laughter. Love of nature & animals is required, ability to ID native plants preferred. Reply here.
36M WRITER SEEKING JEWITCHY COLLABORATOR. Working on a spooky book and looking for a fellow writer, researcher, or practitioner to help get it right. If you love horror, folklore, and fictionalizing the mystical edges of Jewish tradition (i.e. blood-based Jewish rituals), let’s talk. Reply here.
30-YEAR-OLD NJB/DORK LOOKING FOR NJG/NJENBY TO NERD OUT OVER THINGS WITH (NYC). I’m a theater musician, so always down to catch a show. Love to work on crafting projects, cuddle my cat, and learn more about my people. I’ve been getting more into going to Reform Shabbat services. Join me? Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on February 6, 2025:
NJB IN SAN ANTONIO, TX ISO NJG TO WOO. Early 20s, historian, writer & educator. Looking for someone energetic, involved or wanting to be involved with the Jewish world, outgoing & ambitious. Religiously, I’m a mix of conservadox and traditional, but we can be at different observance levels. Open to long distance. Reply here.
CHILD-FREE JEWISH COUPLE (35/F, 34/M) looking for community and friends in the Upper Hudson Valley, NY or Berkshires to check out breweries, see movies and grab dinner with. Bonus points if you want to kvetch about the things you do or don’t miss about city life! Reply here.
25-YEAR-OLD SEATTLE NJB SEEKING ALWAYS-CURIOUS, FIERCE NJG. My main hobbies are reading, skiing and hiking. I also love arts (film, theater, music, etc), baking, history, biking around the city and keeping up on current events. Let’s have a rad day out followed by a cozy, candle-lit, night in. Reply here.
NEW JEWISH GATOR IN TOWN: I am a 31-year-old married woman from Brazil, new to Gainesville, FL, seeking Jewish friends in my age group. I love going to shul, baking, studying together and walking around town chatting on our way to coffee. Looking for friendly, like-minded connections! Reply here.
LOOKING FOR JEWISH FRIENDS IN LEIPZIG. I’m (30s/F) new-ish to Leipzig and wondering where the Jewish community is these days. Me: multiethnic & multicultural background, secular and into reading, film and opera. You: fellow Jews who are hopefully nearby! Let’s hang out! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on January 30, 2025:
FRIEND OF FRUMA SARA (22F) in NYC currently in the process of converting! Lover of movies, a good pizza slice and Judaism. Hater of pork and shellfish. Looking for friends, Shabbat dinners and community. Reply here.
25-YEAR-OLD FEMALE IN LONDON ISO GAL PALS. Both to meet up with and as a penpal to go through the stressful uncertain times with, as well as have a good time together and feel less alone! I love theater, food and talking crazy theories about random things! Reply here.
GAY FRUM TRAD EGAL/MO, LEFTY ON ISRAEL/PALESTINE MAN (33) seeking bashert (26-38 yo) to join for winter hikes, biking, learning Torah/philosophy, ice cream, Shabbos dinners, cool culture, complicated niggunim and silly jokes. From Boston, will date anyone within 2-3 hour plane ride. Reply here.
YIDDISHIST SEEKING YIDDISHIST. NJG (22/Brooklyn) seeking NJB who loves the mameh-loshn. Let’s write Yiddish love letters to each other <3 I love to sing folk music (Yiddish and otherwise), go on Shabes walks, read 19th c. novels and practice my Yiddish conversation skills. Shrayb zshe tsu mir un lomir zikh trefn! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on January 23, 2025:
LEFTY (AND LEFT-HANDED) JEWPANESE LOVER GIRL (22/San Francisco) looking for a reform NJB to sweep me off my feet. Has a penchant for exploring SF’s parks, hosting dinner parties, and using the Oxford comma. Currently on a quest to perfect my vegan rugelach — will you be my taste tester? Reply here.
LESBIAN FIANCÉS LOOKING FOR LESBIAN WIVES WHO’VE HAD A TRADITIONAL JEWISH WEDDING. We’re planning our wedding for this fall and are looking for ideas of how to adapt traditional Jewish wedding customs for a same-gender wedding (i.e. tisch and bedeken). Reply here.
LOOKING FOR AN SE IDAHO FEMME BASHERT FOR MY DAUGHTER (40s). She is a Trans Femme, Gen X, veteran Fleet Marine Corpsman in the process of converting. She loves hiking, pescatarian cooking and learning Torah. Reply here.
JEW-WITCH (SHE/HER, EARLY 30S, MARRIED) SEEKING OAHU FRIENDS. Moving to the island in late spring (military spouse) and would love to make some Jewish friends. I like reading, video games, hiking and museums. Reply here.
20-YEAR-OLD LESBIAN GYIUR (gd, my dyslexia) looking for a long term relationship. I’m American but don’t let that stop you if you’re across the pond! I’m open to LDR. I hope you’re a cat fan because I have a grand total of SEVEN. I love going out in nature and helping out my community whenever I can 🙂 Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on January 16, 2025:
NJB (31) SEEKING NJG IN BROOKLYN / NYC. Big guy, big heart. Into modern art, hiking and cooking. Looking for someone kind, curious, down for something special and not afraid to get kinky. 420-friendly a plus. Reply here.
MONTRÉAL LESBIAN (LATE 20S) SEEKING SWEETHEART. Fan of postcards, bike paths, the movies, fibre art, dinner parties & pretending to understand the PWHL. I love to yap, but I’ll gladly hush for a woman with sharp wit & great hair. Let me cook for you, beat you at Wordle & show you some love. Open to long-distance connections. Reply here.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL (LATE 30S/F) IN SCANDINAVIA, A CONVERT WITH JEWISH ROOTS RETURNING TO THE DATING SCENE. I bake challah, love Broadway musicals, European movies & weird books. Craving intellectual conversations & human connection. Looking for a man in late 30s-40s, let’s discuss Bergman, Judaism & history. Reply here.
NEW-ISH HUMANISTIC JEW, TEACHER AND MOTHER. I’m seeking pen pals/friends to connect with online while living in Mexico in a rural town. I love movies, learning about almost anything and food and travel. Send me your recipes or we can kvetch about anything and have a good laugh! Reply here.
TWO 20-SOMETHING GIRLS LOOKING FOR JEWISH FRIENDS IN CHARLOTTE, NC! We love crafting, kvetching, watching movies and hitting the town. Seeking people to explore the city & share challah, inside jokes and overpriced cocktails with! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on January 9, 2025:
QUESTIONING MY QUEERNESS & FRUMNESS! Liberal 30s AFAB, grew up yeshivish. Once described myself as “the most allocishet,” now not sure any of it is accurate; nor of my place in what was once my community. Seeking online friends experiencing something similar. Bonus if you’re a creative; I’m a writer. Reply here.
DAIRY FREE, 23F, NEW-TO-DC. PA student in search of roomie who also loves a good bagel and great company. Relatively neat with some serious karaoke chops. If you couldn’t get enough of Grey’s Anatomy, be sure to ask me about my time working in Infectious Disease or Colorectal Surgery. Reply here.
L.A. WOMAN OF SCIENCE & POETRY (31/lesbian) ISO sweetheart w/ wit sharp as Kate Hepburn’s cheeks. Loves writing, docs, baking, travel and theater. Always up for a museum, flea/farmers market, nature jaunt or dim sum date. If you have a library card & yearn to swap love letters, we may be bashert. Reply here.
LOOKING FOR MY BOISE MENSCH. Mid-30s gal seeks kind man for Shabbat dinners, cozy nights in and someone who can keep life full of surprises. Bonus points if you can make me feel like the most cherished woman in the room. Let’s nosh and see if we click! Reply here.
CINEPHILE, FOODIE, NON-PRACTICING NJG (22) from DMV moving to Florence, Italy for 2025 art history masters degree, ISO fellow expat friends or a NJB to share a Room With a View-type romance with (minus the chaperone). Speaks Italian and will tutor in exchange for baked goods or a cappuccino. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on December 19, 2024:
POTTERY-THROWING BIKE LANE-LOVING NJB (28/Toronto) looking for a nice Jewish girl to travel the world with. Loves camping, house plants, gossiping with his grandma and baking banana bread. Let’s grab coffee, sit in a dog park and kvetch about the world! Will make you dreidels out of clay. Reply here.
A PAIR OF MARRIED EXTROVERTED ENERGIZER BUNNIES (late 20s/F/M) seeking fellow fun-loving Jewish friends in the Raleigh-Durham area (mid-20s to 30s). Ready to over-consume challah at Shabbat dinners, share stories and if you’re single, let us help set you up with your NC beshert? Swipe right (platonically) on us. Reply here.
22 Y/O TRANS NJB LOOKING FOR QUEER JEWISH FRIENDS IN PHILLY! I’ve been searching for some friends! I’m into Broadway, video games, eating great food and the Phillies! Would love in-person, but feel free to hit me up if you’re elsewhere! Reply here.
31 Y/O LA NJG SEEKING NJB TO WATCH FOOTBALL WITH, GET AMC PASSES WITH AND SHARE BOOKS WITH. Not in any rush, but would love a dog dad for my pup & someone to help on my cooking journey! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on December 12, 2024:
QUEER ENBY JEWISH TORAH NERD (28) SEEKING QUEER JEWISH CONNECTIONS IN ATL. Leftie queer pottery enthusiast looking for romantic connections with other leftie queer Jews in Atlanta! Interests include Talmud study (who doesn’t love Svara), repro health and cooking fire falafel. Let’s get coffee! Reply here.
NJG SEEKING NJG TO MAKE AND RAISE NICE JEWISH BABIES AND BUILD A LIFE TOGETHER. Toronto-based but for you I’ll travel the world. Competitive boardgames, making art, hiking and trying new things. Couch potatoes are good too. I am mid-30s seeking range between 28-45. Bonus if you have kids. Reply here.
RING-WEARING, FJÄLLRÄVEN-CARRYING, OWALA-DRINKING 21 Y/O JEWISH BOY IN ANN ARBOR. I’m fond of tirades and tattoos, seeking funny friends (or a trophy boyfriend) to make me look cool. Lactose intolerant preferred — so I don’t feel bad buying almond milk at coffee shops. Bonus if you can read tarot! Reply here.
NJB-IN-TRAINING LOOKING FOR LOVE. tboy (20/he/they) NYC convert & college student looking for love, friends & community in the city and beyond. Reply here.
NEWLY CONVERTED JEWISH GIRL (18) FROM LONDON. I’m looking to make friends to support me during my transition into the Jewish religion. I love vinyl shopping and I love going out to eat… if you would like a pal in this big city let’s meet up!! 🙂 Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on December 5, 2024:
MUSICAL-SINGING, FANTASY-READING, PUN-LOVING JEW (33F) in Seattle, WA looking for Jewish friends to practice Hebrew (buddy read Hebrew translated romantasy?), fight antisemitism, and puzzle/board game over drinks. Reply here.
NICE JEWISH TRANS BOY LOOKING FOR NICE JEWISH GIRL TO DATE. Pro-Israel, anti-Netanyahu. 20. Looking for the Amy to my Sheldon. Will gladly take you on bookstore dates and watch the “Wicked” movie. I love Broadway, U.S. history and politics and my pets. Hit me up if you think we would be a good match. Reply here.
30 Y/O NJB LOOKING FOR NJG IN NYC. Very left-leaning composer, music teacher, multi-instrumentalist. Coffee addict, foodie, loves film/theater (especially Sondheim), memoirs and nature walks/getaways. Bonus points if you’re politically motivated. Reply here.
LONELY NERDY MAN LOOKING FOR A SIMILARLY NERDY WOMAN. I (22/M/Israel) love art of all kinds, foraging in nature, cooking, activism and my cat! If you’re from abroad let’s be pen pals, but if you’re Israeli let’s hang out! Reply here.
24 Y/O INDIANA NJB LOOKING FOR ANOTHER NJB. I’m simply looking for my Bashert. Ideal guy is younger than 30, loves Torah & Jewish living & is willing to take his time. I love reading, art, gardening, cooking, being a random dork, etc. Together we can have lovely Shabbats & be everything! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on November 21, 2024:
NICE JEWISH-BUDDHIST GIRL (35/Washington, DC) looking for <3 with a local outgoing Jewish-Buddhist guy. Likes dogs, time in nature, meditation, backpacking, camping and adventures big and small. Reply here.
ALMOST-30 JEWISH LESBIAN SEEKS PARTNER IN CRIME. Femme, lover of baking challah, nights out dancing, Jewish joy & curling up w/ a good book (cat included) seeking a warm-hearted NJG (or non-binary mensch) to share travel, tunes and Friday night candles. Let’s make home cozy & life an adventure. New England but open to long distance. Reply here.
MID-30S SITCOM STEREOTYPE IN DENVER. Somewhere between Danny Tanner and Ted Mosby with a dash of George Costanza looking for his bashert. Will keep you laughing and always have a hot dinner on the table. Loves comedy, run club, new restaurants and spamming you with adorable pictures of his puppy. Reply here.
19 Y/O STUDENT IN MONTREAL LOOKING FOR SOME JEWISH FRIENDS! i love cats (i work at a cat cafe), going to bars and clubs and seeing live music! bonus points if you know hebrew and can help me pass my class. Reply here.
NJG SEEKING NJB TO DATE AND HOPEFULLY MARRY. I am a Zionist, liberal, school librarian who loves to travel, her family, books, museums, Broadway & talking about geeky, nerdy things. I love to learn so teach me something. Located in Westchester. If interested, let’s meet up for tea/coffee or a hike. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on November 14, 2024:
BI PISCES DOG-OWNING JEWISH GIRLY LOOKING FOR LOVE ❤️(30/St. Louis). Elementary school teacher who loves to laugh, learn and make art. Ideal first date is to a museum or Blues game but I’m open to suggestions 🙂 Reply here.
NJG IN SEARCH OF NJB (25F/Vancouver). Looking for someone to kvetch with after a long day at work, and who’s willing to help me find a decent Jewish deli in this city! About me: lover of cooking, reading, long runs and listening to music of all sorts. Hater of wet socks and Vancouver’s astronomical rent. Reply here.
DENVER NON-ZIONIST LOOKING FOR COMMUNITY (33F). Let’s talk justice and identity while adventuring around the mountains, city and world. Special shout out to NJBs looking for a life partner. Reply here.
NICE JEWISH LESBIAN (23F) ISO COMMUNITY IN PHILLY! Just moved and looking to meet queer Jews in their early/mid-20s who enjoy museums, walking around and exploring, crafts, exchanging lore, going to concerts and are pro two-state solution (or down to have real dialogue and learn from each other!). Reply here.
NEW MOM IN HER 30S LOOKING FOR JEWISH MOM FRIENDS IN AUSTIN. Let’s kvetch, share hobbies (I’ll bake for you) and navigate raising Jewish kids together. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on November 7, 2024:
CONVERSION STUDENT (24M) from Southern Indiana looking for friends in a dark time. I recently lost my partner and just hate being alone. I want someone to study Torah with, debate nerdy topics and talk about our dilemmas. BONUS FRIEND POINTS IF YOU LOVE TEA, ARE A FOODIE OR WATCH THE NANNY. Reply here.
MID-20S QUEER LESBIAN YIDDISHIST IN LONG BEACH, CA, TIRED OF COMMUTING UP TO LA FOR ALL THE YIDDISH EVENTS. Seeking Yiddishist friends in Long Beach or northwest Orange County. Down for a shmuezkrayz, a leyenkrayz or simply a jam! Reply here.
LATE 20S SOUTH LONDON/SURREY GIRLIEPOP LOOKING FOR OTHER GIRLIEPOPS TO HANG OUT WITH! If you love to eat, I love to cook Friday night dinners, go to the gym & cinema. I love playing & watching football, mooching around museums & food markets, cute coffee shops & exploring new places. Reply here.
28-YEAR-OLD DENVERITE LOOKING TO FORM A GROUP OF JEWISH PALS THAT WOULD LIKE TO LEARN HOW TO DO NEW THINGS AND GAB! I am thinking of learning mahjong, baking challah at high altitude, making art, walks around Wash Park, talking about reality TV and Shabbat dinners. Reply here.
LOOKING FOR FRIENDS IN THE TWIN CITIES AREA! (27F) Interested in reading or board games or handicrafts, recently moved to the area and would love some IRL people to kvetch with. Open to being that buddy for trying that weird new thing around town! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on October 31, 2024:
ACE & LESBIAN SEARCHING FOR LOVE (mid-20s). I’m an egal journalist, based in Connecticut but open to long-distance. Probably either humming a nigun, trying to understand a poem or gentle-parenting my cat. Reply here.
EARLY 30S GIRLY LOOKING FOR MAHJ FRIENDS (DC). Looking for a few friends to join an in-person mahjong group. Happy to teach you if you don’t know how to play! Let’s get together, play, nosh, goss! Reply here.
NICE JEWISH BOY (29/Boston) who hates self-promotion (so this ad was written by a friend). Cutest kindergarten teacher you’ll ever meet looking for a gal to match his Scrabble game. If you don’t get blinded by his award-winning smile you might just have a lovely afternoon drinking a fun bevy, soaking up the fall weather and giggling the day away. Reply here.
SOUTH LONDON JEWISH GIRL (EARLY 20S) LOOKING FOR SOME OTHER ARTSY JEWISH FRIENDS!! Love dogs, all things creative, crime docs, nature, pub and ppl with a good moral compass 🙂 Grew up in an area with little Jewish community so keen to branch out. Reply here.
VETERINARIAN IN SALT LAKE CITY (Late 20s/F) looking for new friends or special someone. Need someone to bed rot and watch reality TV with on Sundays when everyone else is at church. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on October 10, 2024:
LOOKING FOR FRIENDS IN NEWCASTLE UPON TYNE AREA (25F). Just moved into the city after a year of living in the north of England (originally from northeast U.S.) and looking for some Jewish friends who want to grab coffee and kvetch about stuff. Reply here.
NEURODIVERGENT SECULAR NJG (19, they/she) looking for Jewish friends in Portland, OR to serve up some moaning and bitching with! Art student who’s missing Jewish community! Loves kvetching, basically all TV, crochet and attempting to cook new Ashkenazi dishes (send me your recipes)! Reply here.
22-YR-OLD LOOKING FOR JEWISH BUDDIES IN BRITTANY, FRANCE! I just moved to the Brittany region for the next couple of months and would love to meet other Jews in the region. Some things I enjoy are traveling, reading, watching movies and thrifting! Reply here.
NICE JEWISH BOY SEEKING NICE JEWISH GIRL (24M, Los Angeles). If I were a book, I’d be “Old Jews Telling Jokes.” If I were a song, I’d be “Good as Hell.” If I were a rich man, ya ba dibby dibby dibby dibby dibby dibby dum. Seeking someone to share bagels, inside jokes, thrift stores and farmers markets! Reply here.
ISO JEWISH PALS IN DENVER THAT WOULD LIKE TO LEARN HOW TO DO NEW THINGS AND GAB! I (28F) am thinking about learning mahjong, baking challah at high altitude, making art, walks around Wash Park, talking about reality TV and Shabbat dinners. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on September 19, 2024:
NJT4NJT. 23 y/o transmasc autistic Jewish silly little guy (gender neutral) looking for the same. NYC based, lover (and owner) of small dogs, lego and goose fanatic. Let’s be T4T4T (trans4trans4torah) together! Reply here.
LOUISIANA-BASED JEWISH DOCTOR OF PHILOSOPHY (24/F) seeking an ambitious NJB to banter, build businesses and bake babka with. Looking for someone who equally enjoys humor, play and working toward a big payday. Reply here.
RECENTLY TRANSPLANTED (SOMETIMES) NJG LOOKING FOR JEWISH FRIENDS IN THE EDINBURGH AREA (22). History Masters student from across the pond. My parents left me here and now I don’t know what to do. Seeking people to celebrate Shabbat, explore the city and chill in pubs with. Reply here.
NJG (WITH A FIANCÉ ABOUT TO START CONVERTING) IN ANN ARBOR/DETROIT AREA (25). I’m seeking NJFriends to hang out with. Grad student at the U, loves cooking, reading, nature, walking and arts & crafts. Reply here.
WANT TO MAKE A BAND IN BROOKLYN? A 30s former choir and musical theater kid who really misses singing regularly, be it Billie Eilish or Naomi Shemer, is looking for some pals to jam with. Maybe we’ll take this show to the shul? Full disclosure: I don’t play any instruments but I am really good at food. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on September 12, 2024:
LATE 20-SOMETHING GIRL CONVERTING TO JUDAISM IN BOISE, ID. I’m looking for Jewish friends who are willing to also share their Judaism! I’ve been attending the local synagogue but have scarcely met someone below 60 and would love to find the younger Jewish community! I love cats, murder mystery novels, cooking, Halloween & running! (: Reply here.
23 Y/O NJ(TRANS)B IN CHICAGO LOOKING FOR FRIENDS OR MORE OF ANY GENDER! Let’s go to the lake and make the most of the warm weather we have left. Bonus points if you like “Survivor” or can teach me Jewish recipes! Reply here.
LATE 20S REFORM NONBINARY RABBINICAL STUDENT LOOKING FOR THEIR NICE JEWISH PERSON! Based in NYC and looking for someone in the surrounding area. A lover of Broadway and museums, nature walks (not hikes) and little sweet treats. Let’s host cute Shabbat dinners and havdalah board game nights together! Reply here.
DIRECTOR/EDITOR NJM (NICE JEWISH MAN) IN BURBANK (35) looking for a NJW to date with intention and enjoy challah and falafel together on Friday nights. Must love cinema, concerts and comedy and be local to Los Angeles. Reply here.
20S GENDERQUEER LOOKING TO FORM A GROUP (LOOSELY) FOR/BY QUEER JEWS ON LONG ISLAND! To practice, celebrate, enjoy each other’s company! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on September 5, 2024:
LATINE JEW IN CHICAGO (LATE 20s/F) LOOKING FOR PALS! Recently converted so trying to expand my community. Seeking friends who like thrifting, talking about cats and crafting (especially crochet). Bonus if you like trying new vegan places and watching Real Housewives. Reply here.
EARLY 30S CONVERTING BUNDIST QUEER. ENM, disabled & trans (they/it) near San Antonio. Into TTRPGs, baking, queer country & tikkun olam. Looking for dates (any gender) & friendship hopefully near but also far. Still Coviding & you should too. Reply here.
26-YEAR-OLD GAY MAN IN WINNIPEG, CANADA. New to the city and to Canada and looking for queer and non-queer friends! Not afraid of falling in love but not necessarily trying hard to find it. I love to sing and to cook! Reply here.
SEARCHING FOR FRIENDS (OR MORE) IN SPACE CITY! Late 20s, F. New to Houston and seeking friends of all kinds! Let’s grab a drink and kvetch about the humidity here. Who knows, maybe this could turn into something more? Reply here.
25-YEAR-OLD NJG JUST MOVED TO PITTSBURGH AND LOOKING FOR ADVENTURES. Seeking a NJP (Nice Jewish Person) and buddies! Lover of cinema, small book shops and concerts. We can explore the best food spots, local movie theaters and parks! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on August 29, 2024:
PETITE POWERHOUSE JEWISH BISEXUAL BROAD (43/NYC). I’m looking for my soulmate, a lasting love, my tribe! Seeking someone grounded & kind. Can banter with me, go on adventures & binge TV in bed. Bonus if you’re down to take me to the theater. Xtra bonus if you’re down to cheer for me on-stage & on-screen. Reply here.
24-YEAR-OLD JEWISH GAY MAN LIVING IN WESTERN NORTH CAROLINA. I’m looking to connect with queer Jews in WNC or the UK. Just looking for friends as I’ve already found my NJB. I love craft projects, Jewish education, languages (open to penpals!) and traveling. Reply here.
MID-20S, STILL COVID-CAUTIOUS NJB LOOKING FOR NJG. Based in NYC and looking for someone in the surrounding area who enjoys going on adventures, exploring nature, playing games and pretty much anything else that doesn’t require masks off indoors! Reply here.
23-YEAR-OLD NJG JUST MOVED TO OTTAWA FOR GRAD SCHOOL AND LOOKING TO MEET SOME BUDDIES! Let’s hit the best cafés, go on a hike in Gatineau park, have cute Shabbat dinners and/or yap around town. Reply here.
NJG, ESQ (27). New to Dallas seeking a NJB restaurant buddy to double date with my goyish friends. Loves: real dates, cowboys, flowers, & Uchiba. Loathes: what this humidity does to my hair. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on August 22, 2024:
SILLY LITTLE DEMURE NONBINARY JEWISH ARTIST (27) seeking SoCal connections. Looking for fellow nature-loving Jews who want to read in parks together, start a Jewish art collective, form a band, climb trees, do Havdalah at the beach and maybe even kiss? Bonus if you want to join a queer sports league with me. Reply here.
25-YEAR-OLD NJB WRITER/ DIRECTOR IN ORLANDO, FL. Looking for the Sally to my Harry, the Lena to my Barry, the Maude to my Harold. I love to cook, watch films and kibitz for hours. Reply here.
DALLAS AREA NJB LOOKING FOR THE YEE TO MY HAW (26M). I enjoy expensive coffees, long walks and weekend trips to new cities. Looking for a trivia partner & someone to kvetch about family with. Would be open to those in Texas and the surrounding states. Reply here.
24-YEAR-OLD SCANDINAVIAN JEW RECENTLY RELOCATED TO MÁLAGA, SPAIN. I’m looking for friends to hang out and/or spend Shabbat with. Also open to pen pals! I love history, trivia nights and baking — currently trying to perfect my babka recipe. Reply here.
MID-30S DOG MOM MOVING TO CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA. I’m looking for kind, lefty, outdoorsy, non-Zionist types for whom diverse Jewish community is important. Let’s establish a cabal for regular Shabbat dinners and hikes, and debate the chaos of life over G&Ts! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on August 15, 2024:
27-YEAR-OLD NJG RECENTLY MOVED TO NAIROBI wondering if there are any other NJBs/NJGs around to host the occasional Friday night dinner and kvetch about the traffic. Likes: Jewish geography, postcolonial theory, dancing. Reply here.
TRANS FTM/MASC-IDENTIFYING CHUBBY JEW (late 20s) living in the UK and looking to connect with other queer Jews (preferably here but open to beyond). Somewhat Modern Orthodox. Hoping to find a NJG to eventually settle down with. Quiet bookish lover of animals, cooking, bookstores, museums and art. Possibly autistic. Reply here.
NJLESBIAN SEEKING BESTIES IN SAN DIEGO (31/she/her). Hoping to find community with the girls, gays, & theys. I’m dreaming of park Shabbats, game nights, crafting & Israeli movie nights. Interfaith partners also welcome 🙂 Reply here.
20S ASPIRING WRITER IN IOWA CITY (yes, like lena dunham in “girls”) searching for nice jewish people to hang out with! love baking, reading, obscure films, and yapping. <3 Reply here.
MID 30S DIRECTOR/EDITOR NJM (NICE JEWISH MAN) IN BURBANK looking for a NJW to date with intention and enjoy challah and falafel together on Friday nights. Must love cinema, and be local to Los Angeles. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on August 8, 2024:
YOUNG 20S ARTS LOVER LOOKING FOR FEMALE FRIENDS ACROSS THE POND. In search of young 20-something female friends in London! Moving in September for a masters in Creative Producing for theatre so looking for friends who are interested in the arts, workout classes or just want to grab a drink/coffee! Reply here.
EARLY 20S JEWISH LESBIAN IN CHICAGOLAND IN SEARCH OF NJG (NICE JEWISH GIRLFRIEND). Lover of picnics, baking from scratch, Chappell Roan & cheesy romance novels. I work nights so being a night owl is a bonus. Let’s go on reading dates & kiss while we wait for our homemade baked goods to cool 💋Reply here.
TWO AMERICANS IN JERUSALEM. My wife (28F) and I (24F) recently moved here and are seeking friends! We love to hike, visit new places and go to coffee shops! I especially love museums and working out, my wife absolutely loves to watch hockey and F1. If it sounds like you’d like to be friends, send us a message! 🙂 Reply here.
NJB (21) LOOKING FOR NJB (OR G, MAYBE?) TO BUILD A JEWISH LIFE AND HOME WITH. Philly and DC based for now, hoping to move to Chicago. Loves dogs and cats, aspiring librarian. In an open relationship. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on July 25, 2024:
MTF NJG (20) in Denver looking for a NJB or NJG! Looking for a nice person close to my age and nearby! I’d love to get to know you. (I’m trans so being left-wing politically is a requirement.) Reply here.
LOOKING FOR MY NJW(IFE) IN TORONTO. I, a 29 y/o NJG, love to laugh and enjoy going to new restaurants, spontaneous weekends away, hitting a patio with friends, good banter, live music/concerts and taking an afternoon shluff (maybe together). I’d hate to suffer through dating apps… let’s hang out! Reply here.
SANTA CRUZ NJG (22F). Brand new to the bay area and looking for a NJB to explore the coast with! I’m a yoga/meditation teacher and hoping to share this passion with a partner. Let’s get some bagels and talk about who’s bar/bat mitzvah was cooler over a walk on the beach. <3 Reply here.
NJGS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO JOIN OUR TRIANGLE NC HOUSE! You get: friendship, subsidized rent, community. We get: your involvement in hosting and planning events, some of your time. We like: Taylor Swift, bringing people together, silly themes for Shabbat dinners, Olivia Rodrigo. 21-32, please 🙂 Reply here.
PERFORMING ARTIST (EARLY 30S) IN DALLAS-FORT WORTH FOR THE YEAR looking for culturally Jewish friends around the same age with progressive values, who know great local eats from BBQ to international, like to attend live music and theater, or enjoy a board game cafe… and maybe line dancing? Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on July 18, 2024:
MISSED CONNECTION TORONTO @ BARNSTEINER’S JUNE 3. You (M tall blonde) were staring, you caught me (32F brunette polka dot skirt) staring. There was a lot of staring. Even as you helped your grandma (?) outside (very chivalrous). Would love another chance to stare & witness your chivalry. Reply here.
ARE YOU A MID-20S NJG IN THE CHARLOTTE, NC AREA? I WANT TO SET YOU UP WITH MY BROTHER! He’s 25, college-educated, gainfully employed and very single! He reads romance (and more)! Goes to Shabbat services! Comes from a delightful family! Likes: trivia, sports, dogs. Reply here.
NJG LOOKING FOR LOVE AND COMMUNITY IN NOLA (22). Moving to New Orleans for the year (or longer) and would love to make more friends (and meet a NJB so my mom will stop asking for grandkids). Likes reading good poetry and writing shitty poetry, vegan food and social justice. Dislikes belly aches. Reply here.
LOS ANGELES NJG (25) LOOKING FOR MY NJB SO MY PARENTS STOP NAGGING ME TO GET ON JSWIPE. Love farmers markets, traveling, the beach and p much anything outdoors (but also love a good bed rot day). Reply here.
JOIN OUR SQUAD! 20s NGJs (Nice Girly Jews) seeking Toronto-area pals to eat sushi, thrift and kvetch. Conversations about books, sports and politics guaranteed. We met on Hey Alma (we know, how cute!) and are looking for like-minded friends. We’d love to meet you! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on July 11, 2024:
EARLY 20S NJG LOOKING FOR SOBER GAL PALS (Lehigh Valley, PA)! Would love to meet some fellow Jewish women (in person or virtually) who have distanced themselves from partying and leaned more towards shluffing. Reply here.
CHICAGO-BASED SPEECH THERAPIST (early 30s, female) looking to connect with a guy who is confident, funny and knows how to have a good time! I love breweries, karaoke, cooking and beating my NYT mini crossword record. Reply here.
SEATTLE NJB (24) seeking self-assured, open-minded, always-curious NJG. We could spend our time reading, hiking/backpacking, watching theater & movies, skiing, baking, looking at art and whatever else suits us. Reply here.
BE THE KATE TO MY ALLIE OR MAYBE A “MICRO-KIBBUTZ”? 40s LA Westside single Jewish mom (with 50/50 custody) looking for another single Jewish parent to share a big house and bills and hopefully Shabbat dinners and progressive Jewish values. Reply here.
SOON-TO-BE YESHIVA BOCHUR (23M) in Richmond until the end of summer. Looking to grab beers, play top golf and try new board games with new friends! I grew up in Richmond but was previously unaffiliated so I would love to get to know the young Jewish professional scene here. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on July 5, 2024:
MINNEAPOLIS NJG (20) seeking open-minded, intelligent, creative NJB who might be willing to co-parent my cat and fall in love in the process. Must also be willing to take the photos for my Bookstagram and regularly hang out with my mom. Reply here.
BI GAL LIVING IN THE DC METRO AREA (26) looking for more queer or queer ally Israelis and Jews in the area to be friends with or date (if it happens, it happens)! Let’s go on coffee dates and set me up with your Jewish friends because I hate dating apps. <3 bigggg chappell roan fan, if that helps. Reply here.
NEWLY HOME TO LOS ANGELES AFTER TEN YEARS IN CHICAGO AND DC (29F). Looking for girlfriends to go to Pilates, thrift stores and farmers markets. And if you have enough friends, is your cute brother single? Reply here.
PITTSBURGH-BASED DOCTOR/NJG (29) seeks caring NJB in healthcare with a funny bone and down-to-earth attitude. Hobbies include hiking, concerts and cozy nights in. Reach out and let’s see if we click! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on June 27, 2024:
20s MELBOURNE, AUSTRALIAN JEWESS SEEKING A MATCH. Looking for a male 30-35 and is keen on weekly family Shabbats and loads of laughs. May get woken early as I head out for a beach swim. Anyone out there? Reply here.
TWO NJG ROOMMATES HOPING TO HOST SHABBAT DINNERS FOR OTHER CENTRAL JERSEY JEWS IN THEIR 20S AND 30S! We’re grad students at Rutgers looking to build a little community of people who enjoy gathering around the Shabbat table. (We’re vegetarian but not strictly kosher, and not shomer Shabbat.) Reply here.
23F IN THE PROCESS OF FIGURING LIFE OUT (Washington DC). Looking for Jewish friends or a NJB/NJG willing to figure out life with me! I love cooking and concerts and could always use a companion with both! Reply here.
SOON-TO-BE-MD (27F) looking for my beshert. New Havener currently, open to dating men nearby or in NYC/Boston/beyond. Lover of bike rides, board games, Friday night Kab Shab, city jogs that end with a snack, and cheesy puns. So… will you be Alma-ine? 😉 Reply here.
CAMPY, MUSICAL GAL LIVING IN THE SOUTH BAY OF LA (30s) looking for a group of singers! Maybe you were a camp songleader, starred in your high school musical or just like singing! I would love to get a group together regularly to make some beautiful harmonies. 🎶🎤Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on June 6, 2024:
QUEER ISRAELI-AMERICAN WOMAN (26) moving to Los Angeles in August and I’m looking for friends and/or roommates I can be myself around. Loves Shabbat dinners, video games and reality TV! Reply here.
NJG MOVING TO THE NETHERLANDS THIS FALL (early-20s) and looking to make some connections, whether that’s with a Jewish family to connect with for holidays, friends to explore with or perhaps a NJB 🫶 I love the outdoors, trying new restaurants, petting cute dogs and playing board games! Reply here.
LOOKING FOR A JEWISH SECOND FOR CONCERTS CLOSE TO NYC (34F) into alt rock and indie music (open to them being into me as well). I’m a therapist whose idea of relaxing is cuddling and rewatching Law and Order SVU, American Horror Story, Seinfeld or Curb Your Enthusiasm. Reply here.
DOCTOR IN CHICAGO (early-30s, M) looking for a NJG who feels like home. Passionate about Judaism, love to hike, will curate the road trip playlist. Looking for someone 24-32 years old. Must love your family and be kind! Reply here.
JEWISH TO-BE LOOKING FOR FRIENDS IN SOUTH JERSEY/ PHILADELPHIA AREA (20/he/him). If you like to laugh, go out, stay in, or do Shabbat dinners, let’s be friends. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on May 30, 2024:
YINZER JEWESS LOOKING FOR HER NJB IN THE BURGH (28). Please apply if you have good taste, have a sense of humor and if you love Pittsburgh sports! Reply here.
PT/BR JEWISH-TO-BE GAL (27) in Zurich. Open to meet new peers of the tribe, share experiences and be friends. I’m easy going, outdoorsy and love wine ❤️ Reply here.
EXPAT CALIFORNIAN MOM (38) with two toddlers looking for other Jewish mom friends in The Hague! Someone to have play dates with where the kids entertain each other while we eat bagels, complain about the lack of JCCs and generally kvetch and kvell as we please. Reply here.
JEW FROM TORONTO LOOKING FOR MORE JEWISH FRIENDS (25). I’m looking for friends of all genders, hmu if you love thrifting, watching movies, dinner parties and talking politics. Also open to finding love here too. Reply here.
JEWESS LOOKING FOR OTHER 20S & 30S JEWS IN AND AROUND CHELSEA (early-30s/NYC). I’m secular but very culturally Jewish & I’ve been dreaming of building Jewish ritual practices like a monthly Shabbat dinner or a Rosh Chodesh circle. I’m also invisibly disabled & chronically ill. I would love to connect w/ fellow Jews living in that space & looking for community. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on May 23, 2024:
JEWISH GIRL FROM BRAZIL (25) seeking a London pen pal to chat about Jewish life, art, TV shows and pretty much anything. Looking to learn about Jewish community in London as I consider moving there for work. Open to all ages and genders. Let’s connect and share our experiences! Reply here.
NONBINARY LESBIAN LOOKING FOR RIDE-OR-DIE FRIENDS (20/NYC). Looking for other queer and trans Jewish college students to create our own little community. Love of Taylor Swift, small bookstores, Dead Poets Society and late night dorm chats are a plus, but not a requirement! Reply here.
AMERICAN JEWESS LIVING IN AMSTERDAM (29) looking for feminist friends to do girly things with 🥰Reply here.
CALLING ALL NYC SURFERS! I (22M) am looking for a new Shabbos crew to take on Rockaway Beach this summer. I’m hoping to meet other young surfers around my age. Good vibes, good times, all tides 🙂 Reply here.
NJB STUDYING ABROAD AT THE UNIVERSITY OF OXFORD (20). I’m looking for a Jewish community in Oxford or London. I am also open to finding love with a NJG. Hit me up if you enjoy talking politics, going to museums, watching Bridgerton, going to the theater, finding good bookstores and exploring coffee shops. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on May 16, 2024:
CANADIAN BACKPACKER NJG IN SYDNEY (22F) looking for an NJG/B/ENBY to show me the cool spots only the locals know. I love cooking, movies, musicals, and most of all being a ~traveller~. Reply here.
NJB (33) SEEKING A SERIOUS CONNECTION IN THE SF BAY AREA. Looking for a NJG around the same age to take on & enjoy life together! Good communication is a must. Feel like an old soul trapped in a young person’s body. I enjoy hard cider, cats, listening to records, thrifting/ antiquing & good food! Reply here.
QUEER MIZRAHI-ASHKENAZI POET, EDUCATOR AND ACTIVIST LOOKING TO MAKE FRIENDS IN THIS HELL-HOLE (28/F/Miami, FL). Looking for Jews who aren’t Jewish American Princesses. Chill vibes, poetry and food dates, and dogs always welcome. Reply here.
EMPTY NESTING SINGLE MAMA (UWS early 50s) in search of bright and fun female friends for walks around town, coffee, wine, museums, and deep chats about… middle age! I promise we’ll pass the Bechdel Test. Reply here.
LOOKING FOR COMMUNITY AND A BESHERT IN TORONTO (30F). Teacher starting a sabbatical & doing a masters in Yiddish studies. Looking to make connections (all genders) for Shabbat dinners and holidays and ideally a man with gentle masculinity who wants a cute Jewish family. Into social dance, reading & time in nature. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on May 2, 2024:
ARE YOU NOAH KAHAN? CAUSE I THINK YOU WANNA GO TO MAINE… TO MEET ME! Mid-20s NJG looking for love (but loves a good pal, too!). Don’t care if it’s stick season… let’s walk in the woods! And come home to a song circle and a pot of oolong. I can teach you how to dance, wanna show me something new? Reply here.
LOUD, FAT JEWISH LADY WITH A LISP LOOKING FOR FRIENDSHIP AND COMMUNITY IN DC (30). Loves cats but has a dog, loves coffee but has anxiety. Ideal day: hot girl gossip walk followed by several estate sales. Can’t wait to meet! Reply here.
DO YOU WANT TO LIVE IN BOSTON? ARE YOU QUEER/TRANS? DO YOU CARE ABOUT JEWISH COMMUNITY/PRACTICE? I’m starting an LGBTQ+ Jewish co-op in Jamaica Plain. We’ll be making 3-4 meals/week together and hosting Jewish and/or queer events. The group will be finalized by 5/20 at the latest for a 9/1 lease. 🙂 Reply here.
LAW STUDENT WHO LOVES LAUGHTER, COFFEE, CHIT CHAT, DOGS, BOOKS, CONCERTS & PICKLES, AMONG OTHER THINGS (25F). It’s my first summer in Chicago, so seeking a culturally Jewish/Reform NJB (or friends of all genders!) to explore the city and go on adventures with this summer. Reply here.
NYC BAD JEWISH GIRL (30) seeks N/BJB for date nights, adventures, sharing of fun facts, playing of games both board and video. Must love cats, be okay with tattoos. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on April 18, 2024:
FRENCH NJG (32 yo) just moved to NYC & looking for a NJB to give me a good excuse to stay here permanently. Together we could search for the best lox bagel in town, see all the shows, walk around everywhere, dance on every dancefloor. Show me your favorite spots in the city and I’ll teach you my favorite curse words in French! Reply here.
SCOTTISH JEWS LOOKING FOR A 1ST NIGHT SEDER? HMU! I (30s/F) would love to have you out to the sticks if you’re anywhere near. Testing out the 30-min Haggadah this year so the wait before dinner might be a few hours shorter than usual! Reply here.
SISTERS SEEKING NJG IN THE ST. PETE/TAMPA AREA FOR THEIR JERRY-KRAMER MASH-UP OF A BROTHER (37). His interests include kayaking, comedy, musicals of every variety. Get in touch if you want to meet his perfect princess of a dog! (Yes, we have wanted to do this since watching Billboard Dad — IYKYK). Reply here.
SOUTHERN NJB (28) who now lives in Detroit and needs some extra help finding an NJG in the area. Loves going to games and concerts, owns a condo within walking distance to major venues that host those kind of events. Seeking culturally-Jewish woman to share a life with. Reply here.
CRUNCHY NY GAL IN SEATTLE (she/her, 20s). I’m newly arrived w/ my bf after bopping around the country/world for the last few years. Seeking bagel shop-bouncing, fellow Bey Hive, babka-baking & adventure buddies. If you couldn’t tell already, I <3 wordplay — my grandma and I do the NYT crossword together. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on April 11, 2024:
NJB SEEKING NJG IN CHICAGO (25). Down-to-earth, caring, loves music & and sharing lore. Enjoys exploring Chicago and all its hidden places and finding fun places to eat. Loves travel and Parmesan cheese. Seeking culturally Jewish/Reform NJG to explore the city and go on adventures with this summer. Reply here.
NJ(RUSSIAN SPEAKING)G (20) seeking njb in long beach/LA area to take to shabbat!! love cats, reading, baking, crocheting and drawing. i will listen to (and take interest in) your long rants about anything and everything. i will also take your pickles if you don’t like them 🙂 Reply here.
CONVERT NON-BINARY LESBIAN IN CAPITAL REGION OF NY (28) looking for a traditional-ish practicing girlfriend who likes cats, rabbits, memes and preferably drives a car. Reply here.
LEFTY JEW PASSIONATE ABOUT REFUGEES AND IMMIGRATION JUSTICE (20s) in search of wise mentors and a fulfilling job in DC! Looking to work at the intersection of policy, immigration reform and a Jewish commitment to justice. Would love wisdom, advice, words of encouragement, anecdotes, thoughts and leads. Reply here.
COLLEGE-BOUND JEWISH GAL (18F) attending UCONN Storrs Honors Program starting Fall 2024! Looking for any gender Jewish friends around campus, (+ possibly potential gal roomies, or NJBs who want to help me with my Hebrew *wink wink*). Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on April 4, 2024:
THE ORANGE ON YOUR SEDER PLATE (late 20s, San Jose) seeking a date for matzah lasagna. Art teacher + outdoor adventure seeker, cooking is my love language. Open to local love of any gender who makes me laugh, will schlep for the best bagels and is always down for a Prince of Egypt sing-along. Reply here.
LESBIAN MEDICAL STUDENT FROM EASTERN EUROPE PASSIONATE ABOUT ART, BOOKS AND ACTIVE SPORTS (24 yo) would love to make a special connection with Jews all around the world and if the stars align, perhaps even more. Open to long-distance for the right person 🙂 Reply here.
NJG W/ A NEW JEWISH BUSINESS: ISO Jewish small business owners to connect and network with! I just launched Nice Jewish Girl Doodles and I’m looking for mentors and new friends to learn from. Bonus points if you’re NYC-based so we can have coffee together IRL. Reply here.
20 Y/O GENDERFLUID FROM PA LOOKING FOR SOME HELP. I’ve been thinking of converting to Judaism but have no clue where to start! I’m looking for a penpal (any age/gender) to help me start my journey <3 Reply here.
NJG SEEKING A NJB WHO ALSO LIKES TO DRINK TEA IN NYC. I’m a 31-year-old middle school Judaic studies teacher w/ a passion for cooking fancy Shabbat (& weeknight) dinners. I’m looking for love with another committed Jew in the NYC area. Message me if you also are a bit of a foodie and you enjoy craft cocktails and Torah. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on March 28, 2024:
NJB SEEKING NJG IN NORTH WEST UK FOR CUTE DATES (early 20s). AuDHD, passionate about filmmaking, comic books, charity work and deep conversations. I don’t believe in messing around or playing games, and I’m looking for something long-term. Reply here.
QUEER ASTROLOGY SEDER SEEKING A COUPLE MORE ATL PEACHES. In hopes of living out my wannabe gay Jewish mommy dreams, I’m hosting a passover seder! Seeking cool 20s/30s Jews who want to spend an evening noshing and gabbing about our suns, moons and risings. Bonus points if you drive a Nissan. Reply here.
NEW-TO-BERLIN CULTURALLY JEWISH/SECULAR GIRLIE (25) looking for friends! Hobbies/likes: movies, (live) music, food/coffee, comedy, bars, drawing, pub quizzes. Hmu if that sounds good to you and/or if you’re also finding it hard to make friends in Berlin! 🙂 Reply here.
HAPPILY MARRIED LADY (30) seeking the Jenna Maroney to my Liz Lemon, or the Cristina to my Meredith. Long distance/pen pal works or local if you’re in Northern Utah. The Jewess community here is slim! Reply here.
SEEKING JEWS IN CDMX! I’m a 24-year-old girl living in Montreal, going to Mexico City over Passover. Looking for somewhere my girlfriend and I can celebrate — a seder, a dinner, whatever! We speak English/French/Spanish 🙂 Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on March 13, 2024:
NJB SEEKING NJB AND/OR FRIENDS IN THE ATLANTA AREA (mid-20s). Looking to meet friends and/or a NJB in Atlanta! I love nature, long walks and a home-cooked Shabbat dinner as much as a yummy dinner out. Often down for an impromptu adventure especially if it involves being outside. Reply here.
JEWISH ENBY LOOKING FOR A CHEVRUTA TO STRUGGLE THROUGH LEARNING TALMUD WITH (18/they/he). Roughly intermediate Talmud learner looking for someone around the same level to try to work through a masekhet with. Must be OK w/ frequent tangents, derailments, jokes, etc! Hoping for someone open-minded & willing to ask difficult questions of halakhah. Reply here.
LONDON-BASED NJG (23) SEEKING JEWISH LOVE: Smart, sarcastic and loving plus-sized woman with a passion for open water swimming and baking. Seeking a nice Jewish girl to share cuddles, laughs and brunch dates. If you’re ready to dive into a warm and meaningful connection, let’s chat! Reply here.
NJG (LATE 20s) LOOKING FOR QUEER JEWISH ROMANCE. Midwestern ambivert, avid reader and adventurer. Lover of style, art and food. Open to whatever comes my way, near or far 🙂 Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on March 7, 2024:
LEFTIST NJG (late 20s, Boston) seeking my bashert (any gender) to build a Jewish kinky life together. Please be nice in the streets and mean in the sheets. Must love the arts, board games and Shabbos dinner. I’ll show you my bookshelves if you show me yours. Reply here.
LOOKING FOR JEWISH AND KURDISH COMMUNITY (33/M/Seattle area). Married with kids, so meeting other couples or parents would be great! New to the U.S. and just hoping to start making some connections here. I like coffee, music, reading, politics and culture. Reply here.
SUPER SWEET, SMILEY NJG BY DAY (23, tri-state); brilliant, badass law student defending women’s rights by night. Looking for smart, sarcastic, supportive NJB (20s) who wants to take on life together. Bonus if you like cats, Taylor Swift or theater. Open to distance for someone special & serious! Reply here.
22-YEAR-OLD NJB (NY, but grew up in Asia) looking for love. Currently finishing up grad school and looking for a funny and cute NJG. I love history, sports, anime, but most importantly anyone’s interests (I love to learn). Please help me find love so my parents stop asking me if I’ve found a NJG every week. Reply here.
NJG NEW TO SOUTHEAST FLORIDA (23) looking for a cute NJB who is also in his 20s and can show me around. Let’s explore the newest restaurants, do karaoke, or go to a ren faire or comic-con. Reply if you want to be the Logan-Lerman-Percy-Jackson to my Annabeth, or the Adam Brody to my Leighton Meester 😉 Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on March 1, 2024:
QUEER JEWISH-AMERICAN GAL STUDYING ABROAD looking for a london jew to show this american around, maybe get some drinks on my 20th birthday? show me all your favorite places! (nerdy, non-zionist and unforgivably loud — you’ve been warned.) Reply here.
NASHVILLE NEWBIE (25F) looking for community! I’m moving to Music City in May and would love to meet some Jews! I love trying new restaurants/coffee shops, concerts, basketball and anything outdoors. Show me the best of Nash’s patios, trivia, non-touristy nightlife and I’ll bring soup to Shabbat. Reply here.
NEW JEW LOOKING FOR NEUROSPICY FRIENDS IN TAHOE! AuDHD 33F covid transplant trying to find our tribe. Hit me up if you want to have Shabbat dinner hangouts followed by chill ski days, kvetch, ride bikes poorly, vibe out. Must love Nintendo Switch, 90s alt, cats, adventure sports but at a leisure pace. Reply here.
QUIRKY, SILLY AND SENSITIVE MEXICAN/ASHKENAZI JEWISH WOMAN (31) in search of a NJB in LA who’s down to explore museums, movies & meditation gardens. Seeking a committed relationship. I am a soul-searching social worker who loves cats and is not strictly observant but considers Judaism central to my life. Want a family one day. Let’s grab coffee and bagels! Reply here.
NJB SEEKING NJPERSON TO GO ON CUTE DATES (27/M/Queer/Western MA). Let’s go camping with my two dogs and sip coffee while watching the sunrise. Also open to friends. Reply here.
AMBITIOUS AND FEISTY AMERICAN GIRL (23) building her career in London, seeking a nice Jewish boy to fall in love with in between episodes of Curb Your Enthusiasm. Sense of humor and love of food required, dog dads preferred. Reply here.
LATE 20S, 6FT TALL, BEARDED NJB LOOKING FOR NJG. Located in the Great Plains, I love the outdoors, film, dogs and motorcycles. Politically moderate, secular, but open minded. Let’s be socially anxious together 😉 Reply here.
NJG & LESBIAN (22/NW NJ) LOOKING FOR MY SOULMATE. I’m in my senior year of my social work program. I’m looking for a NJG to talk to and get to know. I love cats, nature and Taylor Swift. I like to play video games and spend time taking walks and riding my bike outside when it’s warm out. Reply here.
25 GOING ON 26 NJG IN BROOKLYN NOT SURE WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR. Maybe a friend to go to events with, maybe a potential romance to bloom (hey NJBs). Just happy to go out and enjoy life with companionship! Thrifting, shows, food, art, just let me know 🙂 Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on February 22, 2024:
NJB SEEKING A NJG FOREVER TRAVEL BUDDY & PARTNER (30, Tampa Bay, FL). Reform Jew but open to a more conservative lifestyle if preferred. I believe time & money are best spent on experiences. I love: traveling, sports & Disney, but enjoy staying in to watch our favorite show with some wine & a nosh. Reply here.
BISEXUAL NJB SEEKING NJB OR NJG (20s/NYC). Looking for someone with a sense of humor who will go to shows with me, talk leftist politics and enjoys a good bagel! Reply here.
CALLING ALL SCOTLAND FRIENDS! I’m 27, a married dyke, woman/nb/it’s complicated, neurodivergent, semi-observant, in GLA seeking friendship w/ other jews/jew-ish folks. I show love through cooking for friends. Open communication, a considerate heart, leftist politics are a must. Let’s connect!! Reply here.
NEW-TO-LA QUEER REFORM GIRLIE (mid-20s) looking for Jewish friends to have Shabbat dinner, picnics, game/movie nights, craft sessions and tea parties with. Girls/gays/theys/neurospicies encouraged to reply. Bonus points if you have a cat I can kidnap 🙂 Reply here.
TALL CUTIE (30F/queer) currently living in Brussels in search of a NJG to rewatch Disney movies with. Non-zionist & not a fan of hummus but love matzah balls. I will drive us on little adventures near and far! Reply here.
NEW ENGLANDER IN THE MIDWEST LOOKING FOR PEOPLE (she/her, 23). I just moved to Toledo, OH and would love to meet nearby Jewish people and perhaps have Shabbat dinner together! Reply here.
30S 🇨🇦PROFESSIONAL NJG LOOKING FOR LOVE (I’M BI) OR PENPALS. I am a big foodie, like the outdoors and am making up for lost time traveling after COVID. Happy to swap dad jokes and recipes with new friends and maybe fall in love! Reply here.
NJG (35) LOOKING FOR A NJB (30S) IN THE NATION’S CAPITAL. Wit, humor and cleverness requested; not required. Must love animals. You also like going on impromptu adventures whether that is a Smithsonian visit or a trip to Charlottesville for pie. Let’s make fun of MD drivers together! Reply here.
NERDY, NEURODIVERGENT NJB SEEKING A NJG PARTNER. I’m approaching my 30th birthday and I would love to find the right person to walk side by side into this next chapter of my life without forcing that kind of connection. ATL and ATL-adjacent preferred but the right person is always worth the road trip! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on February 15, 2024:
QUEER JEWESS ROAMING AROUND S. AMERICA LOOKING FOR OTHER JEWS TO REJOICE IN OUR TRADITIONS TOGETHER (23). I’ll be in Santiago for Passover & would love to attend or host a seder w/ other radical queer Jews! I’ll also be in Buenos Aires tomorrow (Feb 16) & would love to find a Shabbat to take part in/new friends to connect with! Reply here.
TALL, BLONDE JEW BASED IN PARIS (30s/F) looking for my bashert or best friend! I adore reading fiction, geopolitics, crows, snorkeling, farmers markets and dogs. Let’s grab a falafel and walk along the Seine! Or share Shabbos together. Fr/Eng. I value deep emotional connection, compassion and curiosity. Reply here.
BISEXUAL SMOL CUTIE LOOKING FOR HER NJB/NJG LOVE (28/Denver). Looking for someone who is down to catch a show, hit the mountains or just simply stay in and snuggle. I love my dachshund and going on adventures. I’m a fun time and looking for someone to match my loud, Jewish energy. Reply here.
JEWISH NON-ZIONIST QUEER (20/F/CT/MA) seeking a partner of any gender. Into talking about (Jewish) punk and telling everyone at the skatepark to have a good Shabbos. Willing to knit your cat (or you) a yarmulke. (Also open to friends/penpals.) Reply here.
GAY JEWISH GUY IN GERMANY LOOKING FOR LOVE IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES (26). I’m geographically flexible, as long as you live in Europe. Do write if you’re handsome, around my age and funny! Reply here.
NJG SEEKING NJB OR NJG IN MONTREAL FOR HAND-HOLDING IN SHUL AND SHARED SCHMEAR (27/Montreal). Let’s find our perfect bagel! Reply here.
QUICK WITTED NJG LOOKING FOR A NJB WHO CAN THROW IT RIGHT BACK AT HER (28/Boston). Loves to run, play with her pup and host Shabbat meals. Looking for a relationship, but not trying to force anything that isn’t there. Must be able to handle sarcasm and dumb puns. Reply here.
SISTER OF AN AMAZING NJG WHO’S OVER THE DATING APPS (20s/NYC) seeking a smart NJB that’s finally worth my sister’s time. Bonus points if you’re into history or will indulge in Broadway. Connect directly or if you’re a sibling who has a brother in mind 😊 Reply here.
NJG LOOKING FOR NJFRIENDS (30, San Diego). Just moved back to my hometown after 12 years. Let’s meet up for a casual coffee and crafting sesh, geek out about our favorite books/movies/TV shows of the moment and/or share Shabbat dinner — I’ll bring the homemade challah! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on February 8, 2024:
LESBIAN IN EASTERN EUROPE SEEKING A PARTNER TO SHARE JEWISH HERITAGE 😊 (23F) Ready to relocate for love. Let’s create something special together! Reply here.
NJG SEEKING A SWEETHEART (27/UK). Cultural Jew with some Reform/Masorti feelings. Let’s hold hands, laugh at bad art, feed our friends soup, tell horrible jokes and kiss. Future spouse should be kind, clever, silly and randy for the NYT crossword jingle. All locations welcome. Reply here.
25F IN SEATTLE LOOKING FOR DANNY. Accidentally unmatched you on Hinge 😭You were at a work conference in Texas with your name tag clipped to your butt pocket and I asked you to marry me bc you like cooking gourmet meals. Hmu for irl wedding planning! Reply here.
LOCAL HAMMERDYKE LOOKING FOR COMMUNITY IN THE WAIKATO (25/she/her). Into baking challah for my goyische flat every week and want to bring more Jews along to laugh at all my Jewish jokes without me having to explain them first. Let’s have solidarity and good food in these hard times. Reply here.
BEARISH NJB WITH SLEEPAWAY CAMP VIBES IN AUSTIN, TX, LOOKING FOR NJB’S FOR FRIENDS AND MORE (24). I’m open to long distance and would love to find someone with whom to share my love of 70s/80s Israeli rock music. Reply here.
NYC ZILLENNIAL LOOKING TO START A MAH JONGG GROUP W/ LATE 20S-EARLY 30 SOMETHINGS (NYC). Just picture it: Us, snacks, gossip, the sound of clacking tiles and wholesome friendship. PS: I’m also a fabulous teacher, so this goes for anyone who wants to learn, too. Let’s make our moms proud. Reply here.
NJB LOOKING TO GET INTO SOME KIND OF KLEZMER MUSIC SCENE (Early 20s/NYC). I play classical violin & fiddle & can mess around on basically anything else with strings. Hmu if you’re interested in jamming! Reply here.
NJG SEEKING OTHER NJG + NJB FRIENDS (25, Ann Arbor, MI). Looking for secular-leaning/other reform Jews to hang out with! Let’s go to social events, UofM Hillel Shabbat dinners, celebrate the holidays and eat the best food around Ann Arbor and the Metro Detroit area. Also loves going out and dancing! Reply here.
NICE (SECULAR) JEWISH GIRL (28) MOVING BACK TO HER HOMETOWN IN SOUTH FLORIDA SEEKS A NJB TO WELCOME HER BACK TO THE SUNSHINE STATE! Mustaches and tattoos not required, but very strongly encouraged. Loves seeing movies, exploring nature and singing/playing ukulele. ❤️ Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on February 1, 2024:
CREATIVE PUNK ROCK NJB SEEKS CREATIVE PUNK ROCK NJG (37/Atlanta). Currently producing a heady sci-fi parody/satire in the vein of The Venture Bros., looking for that special gal to talk all things nerd — including, but not limited to: comics, cartoons, death metal. Must love furballs! And cheesy dates! Reply here.
NJB SEEKING MY NJB BASHERT & PROTECTION FROM FRUMA SARAH (30s). I’m a religious Yid working in health & wanting to be an abba someday. Let’s sing showtunes, read to each other, volunteer together, discuss history and art and make a cute Jewish home. I’m USA-based but open to USA and abroad! Reply here.
QUEER NJG LOOKING FOR QUEER FRIEND(S), OR NON-MALE DATE, TO GO TO CHAPPELL ROAN CONCERT WITH IN PITTSBURGH ON APRIL 5. If you’d also like to show me around the city and where to find a good bagel, that’s more than welcome too. Reply here.
BILINGUAL FRENCH NJG FROM PARIS LOOKING FOR BILINGUAL/ENGLISH SPEAKING NJB (24). I’m French/South African looking to converse (and probably complain) in frenglish. Let’s walk all over Paris until we inevitably end up in rue des rosiers for falafels and shawarmas! Reply here.
RECENTLY DISCOVERED MY JEWISH HERITAGE AND WANTING MORE FRIENDS OR MORE IF WE CONNECT THAT WAY (25y/o poly/pan enby/afab/Memphis, TN area). Very into learning about my heritage since discovering it as well as nerdy things. Reply here.
NICE JEWISH LESBIAN LOOKING FOR LOVE (32F, Houston). Leftist, neurodivergent PhD student seeking connections w/ women or non-binary people. Love bagels, dancing, my cat, sapphic pop & adventuring. Open to long distance. P.S. My parents met through a newspaper personal ad, so that’s some good karma! Reply here.
MOVED BACK TO OXFORD, UK & LOOKING FOR MORE JEWISH FRIENDS. I’m mid-twenties fairly recent returner to Judaism and into environmental stuff & social justice, making cakes, knitting + other crafting, ballet, music and walking. Hit me up if you’d like to hang out! Also very open to pen pals! Reply here.
NJFQR AKA NICE JEWISH FEMALE QUEER RABBI (35/Los Angeles) ISO a life partner of any gender to eventually get married and have kids with, who enjoys hosting Shabbos dinner, going to shul, cuddling on the couch and watching movies & TV. A pop culture enthusiast who values deep emotional and spiritual connection. Reply here.
DO YOU LIKE MOVIES, MUSEUMS, THRIFTING AND MORE? 28 yo NJG looking for friends in the Bronx, Westchester (have a car, so can travel) or Manhattan! Let’s get matcha and meander around cute neighborhoods and towns! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on January 25, 2024:
NJB FROM CHILE STUDYING IN LONDON (21, he/him). Just a wannabe actor/writer looking for friends and dating! I like to sing, read outside, theatre, book recommendations and everything that involves creativity. Reply here.
BAY AREA LESBIAN LOOKING FOR MEANINGFUL CONNECTIONS (25). Let’s go on a hike in the Oakland hills, talk about bravo shows and make out afterwards. Reply here.
NJG SEEKING NJB AND/OR FRIENDS IN THE DMV AREA (Mid-20s). We can bake challah and laugh about core bar/bat mitzvah memories like having I Gotta Feeling on every party playlist. We can order an everything bagel from every bagel shop in the DC area and rank them from worst to best. Reply here.
LOOKING FOR A NICE JEWISH QUEER IN THE EAST BAY (20s). Trans Jew-in-progress yearning for someone to talk halakha, anarchism and plan the next action while we make Shabbos dinner for our friends. Let’s go to fun book shops, explore museums, pet cats and make a sweet, dreamy queer Jewish home together. Reply here.
29M GOING TO SPEND FEBRUARY IN BUENOS AIRES! I’m looking for 20s-30s secular-leaning Jews to hang out with. Down for social events, Shabbat dinners, exploring, hanging out, going out… hmu! Hablo español también. Reply here.
TYPICAL QUIRKED UP NJG (24) who likes matcha lattes, reading, yoga, thai food, collecting records, painting, strawberries and being silly. Looking to make some Jewish friends in Toronto, but if you happen to be a funny & tall NJB looking for a date… that works too! Reply here.
NJG LOOKING PAST APPS, DIVE BARS (32, Chi). Me: Down-to-earth consultant, usually planning a dinner party. Extrovert, but always mid-puzzle or book. You: NJB (Jew-ish OK). Values family/friends. Rolls with punches. Sense of humor. Compared to Jack Antonoff, Ezra Klein or Jason Segel, depending on the day. Reply here.
NORTH EAST LONDONER JEWESS (35) would like to meet a NJG OR a NJB for romance, big laughs and deep chats. I like hearing about your passions and sharing mine, verbal dexterity, silly vibes, gentleness and creative folk. We could see theatre, rate bagel shops, drink cocktails or walk by the canal? Reply here.
NJB SEEKING NJG (M23). Jersey/Philly-based, looking for coffee and/or movie dates. Let’s cook and explore the city together! Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on January 18, 2024:
BOCA BASED NJB (39) looking for another NJB. Business owner with a great family and am an avid traveler. I’m a dreidel for compatibility. Take me home to meet your bubbe, she’ll love me! Reply here.
QUEER POLYAM PRETTY BOY (25, they/he, Leeds, UK) seeking a chavruta that could turn into ahuvati. let me cook for you and we can talk about tikkun olam, anarchism and the halacha of kink. Reply here.
NJG EXPAT IN PRAGUE, CZ (24) looking for NJG friends and NJB more-than-friends. Help prove to me that we exist in this city! Likes: Cheap flights, outdoor markets and fun facts. Dislikes: Czech grammar. Reply here.
NJG LOOKING FOR HER “DREIDELS & DRAGONS” BUDDIES (19F). Looking for some fellow nerdy Jewish friends (18-20ish) to form an online D&D group (Dreidels & Dragons, of course) and talk about life. 🙂 Reply here.
SEMI-NEW CHICAGOAN LOOKING FOR A NJG TO TRY EVERY JEWISH DELICATESSEN IN THE CITY (26M). Dry and sarcastic humor, but very sappy and mushy once you have my heart. Looking for someone warm and caring to give it to. Reply here.
NJG LOOKING FOR FRIENDS IN MINNESOTA (18). I’m a lesbian looking for friends to get coffee with and go to concerts with! Reply here.
GIRL NEXT DOOR ISO MAN TO DREAM BIG WITH (early 30s/Brooklyn). Reform, outdoorsy for nyc, freckly, working on my resolution to be more fun. Let’s eat really well, be homebodies and adventurers, and cheer each other on as we accomplish our next great things. Reply here.
BOSTON-BASED, BISSEXUAL JEW (22M). I’m applying for a master’s degree at MIT and I’m looking for someone to have fun with. I’m liberal, I like running, skateboarding and reading. Reply here.
NICE JEWISH MOM (early 30s in Central/Southish NJ) looking for a Jewish Mom friend to do neighborhood stroller walks with our toddlers while we gossip, drink coffee and nosh on bagels. Bonus if your kids are 6 and under, you love Bravo shows, love wine and read novels with Oprah or Reese. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on January 11, 2024:
POLYAMOROUS JEWS IN TORONTO, WHERE ARE YOU? (Mid 20s/F). Looking for other poly Jews (of any gender) in Toronto, for connections of any kind. Let’s get coffee and chat about your favourite books or tv shows (and kvetch about needing more poly representation in media). Reply here.
NJG EXPAT ABROAD IN SYDNEY, AUS (27) looking for connections ~romantic/friendship/pen pal~ Likes: getting new tattoos, crocheting, hiking, ocean swims, cheese. Dislikes: being lactose intolerant, people who don’t like animals, sunburns. Reply here.
VERY TALL NJB LOOKING FOR A NJG (6’7”/19/York, UK). Obsessed with Red Dead (TAHITI), playing Skyrim and doing my university assignments. Semi observant. Listening to my big playlist with rock and old big band music (idk why either). Looking for someone sweet who loves dining, is caring and open. Reply here.
MATCHMAKER, MATCHMAKER, MAKE ME A MATCH… Mid-20s ace enby in Minnesota, looking for their bashert. I love all things fiber arts, books, scary movies and hope you do too! Reply here.
DENVER NEWBIE (22 F) looking for friends to scour thrift stores, hit the library and explore new restaurants with. Bonus points if you love to tell long funny stories over wine. Reply here.
NJG LOOKING FOR A NJG (20). Going abroad to London for the semester looking for a fun date! Loves Phoebe Bridgers, overalls, new books and museums. She/her and not romantically interested in men (but down for friends!). Reply here.
NJG AND GOY HUSBAND LOOKING FOR LIKE-MINDED JEW-ISH FRIENDS/COMMUNITY TO HANG OUT WITH (Early 30s, Los Angeles). Interests include playing games, trying out new restaurants, hiking and cooking! Reply here.
NICE JEWISH GAY (23F) currently based near Philly looking for new connections (friends, romantic, etc). Radiating queer camp counselor energy all year round. Let’s hang if you love trees, loudly singing Jewish songs or Taylor Swift, bananagrams, glitter, mud and silly adventures. Reply here.
PORTLAND-BASED NON-BINARY PANSEXUAL JEW (30s) looking to meet other nice Jewish queers in the area. Nonprofit professional, quirky and progressive. Let’s make dark jokes and bake challah. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on January 4, 2024:
WHY IS IT SO HARD TO MAKE FRIENDS AS AN ADULT? us: Jewish American academic couple (early 30s/Ottawa) with a love of board games, running, cooking, movies and soccer! you: friends who also love these things, are progressive-minded and want to join us and our dogs for Shabbat dinner! Reply here.
LOOKING FOR OTHER QUEER VEGAN JEWS (19/Hunterdon County, NJ) to hang out with and maybe have a romantic partnership with! I’m a lonely cat-loving weirdo looking for connection with someone who shares my values. Plus if you enjoy Grey’s Anatomy, Marvel, anime and going on adventures! Reply here.
NJG IN ST. JOHN’S, NEWFOUNDLAND (24) seeking Jewish community, friends or more! New to this city and would love someone to explore with, go to art galleries, see live music, watch movies and do Shabbat dinners together. Reply here.
NON-BINARY SAPPHIC PHOTOGRAPHER & DESIGNER SEEKS BASHERT (33). A perpetually curious cultural flâneur wondering why we are the way we are and exploring this question through art, books & film. Interests include gardening, foraging, road trips to nowhere, museum visits, mutual aid, a perfectly brewed cup of tea, live music. Currently in RVA but excited to leave. Reply here.
“CONSERVADOX” NJB (27) looking for gay or gay-friendly Jewish friends who are on the same spectrum of religious observance (conservative or orthodox-ish), either around DC (in person) or from anywhere as a penpal. Reply here.
EASYGOING NERDY JEWISH GAL SEEKING THE SAME IN A PEN PAL (30). I like museums, star trek and foraging. got similar interests? paper or e-mail, both good to me. Reply here.
NJB LOOKING FOR LOVE (20/London/kosher). I’m doing a master’s at St Andrew’s. My special interests are Biblical Literature and Ancient History. I love rock music but I’ll listen to anything. I’m looking for a NJG who’s silly and has the same tummy problems as me. Being willing to listen to my infodumps gets you bonus points. Reply here.
QUEER CONVERT (33/TRANS MAN) SEEKING FRIENDS IN MA AND ONLINE! Looking to connect with folks of a similar demographic to chat with and learn from while I hyperfixate on becoming a Jew. Also always seeking more boardgame friends! Reply here.
BLACK/ASHKENAZI GUY IN NYC (34) looking for NJG to hang out with. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on December 21, 2023:
NJB LOOKING FOR LOVE (24/Seattle). I love reading, hiking, cruising around on my bike, watching theater, watching film, seeing art and going to classical and folk/rock concerts. Employed with a graduate degree. I’m looking for a NJG who is always curious and loves living life. Reply here.
LOOKING FOR MAH JONGG PLAYERS IN CHICAGO: Looking for fun, lighthearted, warm people who want to play 1-2x per month on weeknights. About me: I’m about a year into playing, 33yo, married, living in Lakeview and love reading rom com books, peloton yoga and trying restaurants. Reply here.
QUEER 19-YEAR-OLD CONVERT LOOKING FOR OTHER QUEER JEWS IN THE NORTH OF ENGLAND for both friendship and potential guidance/support during my learning and growth. Reply here.
NJG LOOKING FOR OTHER JEWISH PEOPLE ON THE ACE SPECTRUM ACROSS THE STATES (25/USA). ISO platonic or romantic connections! Big plus if you’re into film or cats! Reply here.
RUSSIAN-JEWISH NJG LOOKING FOR A JEW-ISH COMMUNITY IN REDONDO BEACH (26). I just moved and I’d love to reconnect with my Jewish community. I didn’t grow up too religious, but I always enjoy learning and hanging out in a Jewish context. Let’s get some lunch and chill at the beach or explore the area! Reply here.
MIZRAHI/ASHKENAZI GIRL IN LONDON LOOKING FOR BOULDERING BUDDIES. Me: late 20s, recently returned to London after some time in Asia, looking to expand social circles through bouldering, books and baking. You: open minded, with a mix of adventurousness and a laid back attitude 🌱 Reply here.
COUPLE IN CENTRAL NJ LOOKING FOR PROGRESSIVE FRIEND(S) WITH A DOG (30s). OK we’re looking for a friend for our 1-yr-old dog. He’s a big boy and needs a playmate. You bring your pup, I’ll make tea, snacks and more. They can play in our big backyard while we chill. Doggo guests must be vaccinated. We have a senior pup to protect. Reply here.
NJG IN DC TIRED OF DATES THAT TURN INTO NETWORKING. Me: Late-20s grad student/government girly with a love of coffee & books who only follows sports during March Madness. You: NJB, mid/late-20s/early 30s, intelligent, soulful eyes, a delightful mix of serious & goofy. Let’s get Ethiopian food & discuss our next international travel destinations. Reply here.
BISEXUAL NJG SEEKING SOMEONE TO SPEND MY TIME WITH (19, LA). I’m looking for a partner or friends to try new restaurants, watch sunsets and have movie nights at home with. Always down to grab a cup of coffee. Reply here.
Reply to a classified posted on December 14, 2023:
LONDON NJB LOOKING FOR DREAM NJG. Early 20s member of the tofu-eating wokerati looking for someone to cook Ottolenghi for or wander around art galleries with. Reply here.
SF NJB SEEKING A NJG TO BRING BACK TO MY SOUTH AFRICAN MOM (24). Loves exploring new foodie scenes as much as movie nights at home. My self-worth is connected to my humor so only reach out if you’re able to cope with my dad jokes. PS: hope you don’t mind a hairy chest. Reply here.
NJG SEEKING KINDRED SOULS IN NYC. 22 y/o lesbian moving to the city in January. I’m like if Abbi and Ilana were one person. Looking for friends and/or lovers to try gluten-free restaurants, visit museums, go thrifting, over-analyze Taylor Swift lyrics, be silly and have deep convos together <3 Reply here.
NEUROSPICY JEWISH GIRL WITH AUDHD LOOKING FOR OTHER COOL PEOPLE TO CONNECT WITH (30s, NY). I am cool with either having a pen pal, or someone to hang out with in NYC. Some of my interests include Star Wars, Broadway, books and art. Bonus points if you like a blunt sense of humor. Reply here.
NJG IN DENVER LOOKING FOR NJB ADVENTURER (33). Let’s hike and ski around Colorado, goof off, watch scary movies, have thoughtful conversations and find Denver’s hidden gem restaurants. Reply here.
FINISHING GRAD SCHOOL IN BOSTON AND MOVING TO THE PHILLY AREA FOR WORK (24M). Looking to meet a NJG and explore the area together. I love coffee shops, film, tennis and traveling. I am vertically gifted 🙂 Reply here.
TRANSMASC NJB SEEKING MLM WITH A NJB (23, he/they, Atlanta, grad student). Mid-transition, Asian(ish), been told I look like a little twink with the personality to make up for my height. Bonus points if you’ve ever annoyed someone by quoting Star Wars a little too much. Also hmu if you’d like to be friends! Reply here.
PROGRESSIVE PURPLE-HAIRED MOM SEEKING FRIENDS IN FL & BEYOND (50s). Young-at-heart mom of 3 adult kids and 4 poodles stuck in Florida, looking for Jewish friends. Would love to meet ladies who love animals, books, fun pens, games, arts & crafts. Locals who want to meet up & women anywhere welcome! Reply here.
QUEER, DIASPORIST, JEW (39F) moving to Bournemouth (UK). WLTM local Jews who like complexity, nuance & the outdoors. Reply here.