How to Dress Like Haim

Need a uniform for Haim Summer? We've got you covered with Jewish sisters Danielle, Alana and Este's best looks.

At Coachella last month, the queen of brat herself Charli XCX declared numerous ideas for this summer’s theme. It could be Cronenberg Summer or Lorde Summer or Ethel Cain Summer, she offered. All good options. But of all Charli’s ideas, in my humble opinion, one stuck out as the most promising: Haim Summer.

To be honest, I’ve already started subscribing to Haim Summer. I’ve long been a fan of the Jewish sister trio, but “Relationships” is my song of the season. I’ve been listening to it on repeat, softly singing the lyrics “Baby, how can I explain / when an innocent mistake / turns into 17 days / fucking relationships” to myself whether I’m in the shower or walking through the park. My obsessiveness is extending elsewhere in the Haim-iverse, too. After Drew Starkey and Logan Lerman‘s appearances in Haim’s last two music videos, I’m left theorizing who will be the next Haim boys (the sisters’ answer to the Bond girl). I’m bargaining with myself over splurging on concert tickets or pre-ordering “i quit” on vinyl. I’m debating whether I should let my bob grow out into Danielle, Alana and Este’s effortlessly ’70s waves. And based on how many results pop up on X, Instagram and TikTok when I search “Haim Summer,” I’m sure I can’t be alone.

A key part of Brat Summer was the style: Brat (read: lime) green, mini skirts and hot pants, big black sunglasses, baby tees and strappy tank tops with no bra and thick eyeliner — basically anything that makes you feel a little messy and really hot.

So, what’s the Haim Summer uniform?

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In essence, I think, Haim Summer is about breaking up with your boyfriend. Haim’s new singles — “Relationships,” “Down to be wrong” and “Everybody’s trying to figure me out” — all evoke a feeling of independence, of questioning and shaking off the oppressive forces in one’s life, which happen to be centered around relationships. So I think the vibe of the summer is figuring out what you want and being free in your own body. To translate this into a visual aesthetic language, take a cue from Haim’s own style: Don’t be afraid to show skin. Make big choices with color, pattern and texture. Try varying your looks from a flowing skirt to well-tailored trousers. Lean into anything with a Los Angeles or vintage vibe. Wear not one Star of David, but layer two.

And, of course, Haim Summer uniforms are most effective when they’re coordinated and in multiples of threes. “In order to maintain cohesion, the Haim sisters tend to center their looks around one unifying texture, color palette, or silhouette,” Hannah Jackson writes for Vogue. “Like with their music, they share the spotlight with ease, blending into the collective. But that doesn’t mean their individuality disappears: that each outfit succeeds alone and in the group is the true marker of success.”

You can and should take this definition of Haim Summer and run with it. But to ground you in a starting place, I’ve compiled clothing items and products that emulate some of my personal favorite Haim looks. Whether it’s the black bikini and leather pants of the One More Haim Tour, the bikini top and jean shorts looks from the “Summer Girl” music video, a retro number Alana wore in “Licorice Pizza,” the styles the sisters wear on the covers of “i quit” and “Women in Music Part III” or, yes, even outfits from the “Relationships” video, these pieces will help you dress like Haim.

Happy shopping and a very happy Haim Summer to us all!

Equator Top in Black Terra (Tropic of C)

Really perfect your moves to "I Know Alone" or learn the dance to "Relationships" in this tiny black bikini top, paired best with the leather pants and boots below.

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Faux Leather Wide Leg Pants (Nordstrom)

The leather pants Haim wears are from Louis Vuttion's Fall 2022 Ready-to-Wear collection. But these are a more than suitable dupe.

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Ciara Black Boots (Steve Madden)

Black ankle boots are an essential item if you want to dress like Haim. Plus, they're just a good basic to have.

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Opaque Tights in Ocean 13 (Oroblu)

Haim loves a playful tights-as-pants moment. These blue tights, like the ones Alana's wears in the "Relationships" video, add a nice pop of color. Paired best with the bodysuit, Maryjanes, button-up and tie below.

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Yelena Maryjane Ballet Flats in Black Leather (Cole Haan)

Maryjanes and ballet flats are in! Be trendy and give your feet a break.

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Double-Layer Scoop Neck Bodysuit (Old Navy)

The bodysuit Alana is wearing is probably designer. But for your purposes, stick with tried-and-true Old Navy. It's inexpensive and will last awhile.

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Cotton Short Shirt in White (Uniqlo)

Even if you weren't trying to dress like Haim, having a white button down in your closet is just a good idea.

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13" Adjustable Black Necktie (KALIONE)

OK, look. I don't know a ton about ties. So my suggestion is getting a very simple, adjustable option from Amazon. It'll get the job done!

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Custom Kelly Green White-Gold Jersey (Fansidea)

Danielle wears a lot of outfits in the "Relationships" video, but my personal favorite is the green jersey tank top and red underwear she wears in bed. To recreate the top, buy this custom jersey in a size up and with the number 31. Paired best with the red bikini below.

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Wave Textured Contrast Piping Tank Style Cheeky Bikini Set

Cheeky bottoms plus fun color combos and texture? This is very Haim.

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Teal Sequin Dress (Label Ritu Kumar)

Danielle, Alana and Este are wearing thrifted dresses on the cover of "i quit." But this piece, with its puffy sleeves and sequins, is a pretty close dupe to the teal piece Danielle is wearing.

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Blue Sequin Mini Dress

If you're more of an Alana, go with this dupe to the dress she wore for the "i quit" photoshoot.

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Sequin Solid Cut Out Ruched Mini Dress in Purple (Cider)

Or, if you're an Este, go with this ruched purple dress.

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Customizable Los Angeles Apparel Cap Crop Top (Fresh Prints)

Haim began their press tour for "i quit" with coordinated Instagram posts and t-shirts reading "i'm taken," "i'm single" and "i'm ???" You'll have to make your own to get the look. I recommend customizing this baby tee with font like Punto Bold from Adobe.

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Women's Bell Bottom in Plum (Hammies)

When Alana starred in "Licorice Pizza," her costumes were not a stretch to her real-life style. The purple brushed denim bell bottoms she wore in the movie were vintage, but this pair will get the job done. Paired best with the t-shirt and belt below.

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You've Come a Long Way Baby Tee (Tee Public)

If a custom t-shirt with the phrase "You've come a long way, baby" is good enough for Paul Thomas Anderson — his costume department made the t-shirt Alana wears in the movie — it's good enough for you.

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Square Buckle Belt (Mango)

No vintage look is complete without a belt with a large buckle!

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Beige & Red Checkered Eco Friendly Bikini Top (Etsy)

The red gingham bra and jean shorts Danielle wears in the "Summer Girl" music video are pretty iconic. This is an option for the top if you're looking to emulate the design more than the cut of the top.

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Organic Cotton Pointelle Bralette (Cotton:On)

This is an alternative option for Danielle's "Summer Girl" bra. This is if you're interested in a bra which more closely resembles the original cut. Either are best paired with the baggy jean shorts below.

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High Rise Baggy Women's Shorts in Memory Short - Medium Wash(Levi's)

Any Haim lover needs some Levi's in their collection. These mid-thigh denim shorts feel so perfectly '90s and 2000s.

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Good Feels Tube Set in Tangerine Tango (Free People)

Este's red tube top and skirt set in "Summer Girl" is so airy and beachy. Paired best with the necklace and earrings below.

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Crescent Moon Necklace (Etsy)

All the Haim sisters received a crescent moon necklace as a gift from Stevie Nicks.

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18K Chunky Gold Hoop Earrings (Etsy)

Chunky, puffy jewelry is on-trend right now. Splurge a little!

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501 Original Fit High Rise Women's Shorts in Promise Me - Light Wash (Levi's)

If you want Levi's jean shorts, but like a shorter inseam, these are for you. Paired best with the Victoria's Secret bra below to complete Alana's "Summer Girl" look.

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Wear Everywhere Push-Up Bra in Toffee (Victoria's Secret)

Victoria's Secret feels like such throwback to the era when the Haim sisters (and, let's be real, most of us) were growing up. It's never wrong to nod to the clothing crazes we all participated in.

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Classic Solid Apron (Williams Sonoma)

The cover of "Women in Music Pt. III" is a moment. As far as I'm concerned, Haim has made aprons an accessory. Paired best with the white tank top and wide leg jeans below.

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Callie Tank in Bleach (Reformation)

Perfect to absorb any stain from Canter's Deli or your preferred Jewish deli.

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High Rise Stride Wide-Leg Jeans in Washed Black (Gap)

Trade the low-rise skinny jeans for high-rise and wide-leg.

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The Washed Leather Motorcycle Jacket in True Black (Madewell)

Leather jackets are an important accessory to any Haim outfit. It'll make you look and feel independent, tough as nails and "Down to be wrong."

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The Coline in Tortoise/Brown (Reformation)

Trade the giant Brat sunglasses for something smaller, sleeker and maybe with a touch of tortoise.

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Glossier Generation G Sheer Matte Lipstick in Leo

Haim has been known to wear a bold red lip. But for the most part, their make-up looks are more natural. Glossier is the best in the biz for minimalist cosmetics and Leo is a fun neutral shade.

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Unisex Classic Star of David Necklace in Sterling Silver (Modern Tribe)

The Haim sisters often wear simple yet elegant Star of David necklaces out and about. But at the "Hacks" season three premiere a few years ago, Alana wore two. Stacking is very in, so I would follow her lead.

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Evelyn Frick

Evelyn Frick (she/they) is a writer and associate editor at Hey Alma. She graduated from Vassar College in 2019 with a Bachelor of Arts in English Literature. In her spare time, she's a comedian and contributor for Reductress and The Onion.

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