The internet is abuzz talking about something called BDE, or “Big Dick Energy.” The Jewish internet is confused by this. We’re here to explain.
The conversation began when Ariana Grande tweeted that her newly minted fiancé, Pete Davidson, is well-endowed. As Allison Davis helpfully wrote in a Cut article explaining Big Dick Energy, “BDE is a quiet confidence and ease with oneself that comes from knowing you have an enormous penis and you know what to do with it. It’s not cockiness, it’s not a power trip — it’s the opposite: a healthy, satisfied, low-key way you feel yourself.”
Twitter has taken this and run, tweeting about celebrities and fictional characters they believe to have BDE.
No one on this planet has more BDE than Rihanna.
— A.B. (@AlannaBennett) June 26, 2018
the only character with BDE in harry potter is ginny weasley
— alexis nedd (@alexisthenedd) June 26, 2018
you know who has BDE? Cate Blanchett in Ocean’s 8
— ˗ˏˋ lottie ˎˊ˗ (@lotstradamus) June 26, 2018
But, as one confused tweeter pointed out, “when Jewish people hear about a death, we say Baruch Dayan Emet, which when abbreviated is BDE.”
Stands for: Baruch dayan emet (ברוך דיין אמת)
Pronounced:bah-ROOKH dah-YAHN eh-METT
What it means: Hebrew for “blessed is the true judge.”
When it’s used: Commonly said to a mourner upon learning of their loss.
hey jewish twitter: is anyone else seeing BDE and just thinking about pic.twitter.com/SfArqRF48J
— shoshannna (@wodddinsky) June 26, 2018
A search of “BDE” on Twitter before yesterday comes up with notices of deaths, with people tweeting memories of those who have passed away. Example, from April:
“We say those who save one life saves a universe. You saved hundreds of universes.” BDE. May his memory be a blessing. https://t.co/41zyC2c6S1
— Rebecca K Weingarten (@coachkiki) April 3, 2018
Alma contributor Alisa Ungar-Sargon explained it perfectly: “I guess it was only a matter of time before a blessing made in times of tragedy and hardship to offset the anger stage of grief directed specifically at the Lord Above would cross lines with an attempt at capturing why men of a certain size could have what some might call ‘ineffable’ magnetism.”
Will Jewish Twitter ever be able to hashtag #BDE again without some weird connotations? We don’t know. But we can’t wait to find out.